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understandyourrelationship.com is a relationship blog that gives you free relationship advice.

The relationship blog covers the topics from long distance relationship, love relationship to break up relationship, and gives love advice, marriage advice and break up advice. The relationship blog also recommends relationship forum and relationship book.

Relationship Advice

• How to better your relationship
...There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway...All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it...If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it...A relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
• Building a relationship is like building a bridge
Building a relationship is like building a bridge over a river...While we’re being in love we can build a lasting relationship based on respect, trust, and friendship...If the relationship lacks respect, trust or friendship, then you will eventually end up falling out of love...

Love Relationship and Love Advice

• A love relationship with no result
...Love is supposed to be mutual, and when he's just not that into u, to avoid self-hurt, you had better give him up as soon as possible before your love is getting deep...You lose yourself in this unbalanced love relationship and you will feel you are fooled and painful...You don't really love him as is and you just love the one he might become in the future, then he is just someone you want to shape but not your love...You have pity on him and then you try to love him...It's alms giving that lacks respect for love...If you tend to love someone you admire, you usually lack self-confidence...A beautiful woman is a target of aggressive men who are addicted to competition, not love...Being free means he can be with you freely, unmarried, unengaged, not dating someone else, not in a love relationship, single and only be with you. If the man you are being in love with promises you that he will leave the other woman very soon; or he says that he doesn't love that woman and he loves you; or......then he's not free...
• Friend and love relationship
...Sometimes when people are tied to an unhappy love relationship, they will always complain that they are not as lucky as their friend who finds his / her true love, nevertheless, they aren't aware if they don't finish their ongoing love relationship, it's very hard for them to find true love...

Marriage Advice

• Why is marriage love's grave
...Schopenhauer believes that the purpose of love is to get married and the purpose of marriage is to have children. Therefore, love basically is a method and so is the marriage; when the goal is achieved, the method can naturally be ignored...Another theory reveals that two person's different custom caused the failure of the marriage. Before marriage, the couple was not living together, even if they sometimes stay together. Their habits and custom will not conflict with each other too much...Actually the very reason that love vanished is the vanishing of the feeling to respect love. Marriage directly caused the vanishing of this feeling...The immediate consequence of marriage is the vanishing of the feeling to respect love...
• How to avoid marriage to be love's grave
...After marriage, two persons are still individual persons, and need to be respected as individual persons, respecting his personality, his freedom...In a marriage, the cultivation and proper limits are also necessary, otherwise the couple will finally be separated...After marriage, love still requires the mutual attraction, pursuit, appreciation and being relishable...In a marriage, both sides must always regard the other one as an individual being, a goal that needs to constantly pursue and no one is able to get and possess another one once and forever...A good marriage is supposed to always keep love in imperfect tense and the two persons must understand that love is not yet fulfilled, that it needs to continue growing and that each is supposed to continue respecting the other one as an individual person and continue to win the other one's heart by action...There are certainly rules and without rules, marriage is impossible to exist and keep...There is no way to insure marriage absolutely and perfectly secure and among all the solutions, being forced to bind to each other is the worst solution and as a result, or the couple pay their way to keep the meaningless marriage without vitality, or one or both are not willing to be stuck in the boring life and result in separation...Although the relatively free way of dealing with marriage has a certain risk, in general, it can strengthen the marriage and probably keep it high quality...In a marriage, one is supposed to respect the other one's privacy, on the other hand, the actual privacy is supposed to be limited...

Break up Relationship and Break up Advice

• Break up cost of love
How much does a break-up cost?...Are you aware of the hidden cost of a break-up?...Because love with no result is costly, it hurts so bad when you break up...When you break up, simply read the shortcomming diary and tell yourself, "it's not a regret at all to lose such a person."...
• How to say goodbye to a lover
...I sum up this topic in great detail as follows in the hope of helping some other people whose personalities don't allow them to easily get over the break-up...When you break up with someone you still love, the situation is always like this: your mind says let him go but your heart says hold on...

Relationship Book

• Please understand me 2
Do you believe that a book can change your life?...Sometimes when you are sad about finishing a relationship with your ex-lover or the like, it's not because you are still in love with him/her, rather, because you don't understand how and why this ends. You always think you can learn from your previous failures when you know the reasons and then you can move on to the next one, however, it doesn't definitely work the next time, simply because the next relationship is different, the next person is different...The good point for me to know these differences revealed by this relationship book is that I understand others better although I'm not changed and neither is the other person; It helps get along with others better...You won't really know yourself till you thoroughly read this relationship book in great detail...If you want to save a vital relationship from failure or if you want to grow and keep a successful relationship when it just starts it's very helpful for you or even your partner both to read this relationship book; especially when you have question marks why some of your previous relationships end similarly..."...Their sensitivity, their spirit of cooperation, their ability to communicate their feelings, their passion for their mates, and their desire for deep bonding, their personal warmth and enthusiasm – all these traits work their magic in the Idealists' relationships."...I recently ran across the relationship book “Please Understand Me 2” and found that I was a Champion/Healer Idealist temperament...In that theory, all those famous people who have different temperaments, defined in Dr. Keirsey's relationship book "Please understand me 2", are labeled as narcissists, including Bill Gates and the like, which I can't seem to agree.
• He's just not that into u
...If he can make a move, and he's not, then he's simply not that into u. PLEASE read the relationship book; it has officially shamed me and my pushy girl ways. It has changed the way I will forever date...

New Relationship Advice

• Discipline a Boy
Need relationship advice on the best way to discipline a 10 year old boy that is always getting into trouble at school, daycare and home! We have tried, restriction, taking away things that he likes to do, making him clean all kinds of things around the house, writing sentences, doing more homework, I cannot even remember all of the things that we have tried!

- Samantha

1 Relationship Advice:

Blogger Min Min said...

You are great parents. Don't worry. Change will not be made instantly but he will "suddenly" grow up some day. You will realize that every single effort you are doing now is necessary and worthwhile. It is "from quantitative change to qualitative change". Success belongs to those who keep on till the end.