Express your Love with the Right Language

This article looks at the five love languages inspired by Dr Gary Chapman. I have tried to relate Chapman’s ideas to Keirsey’s. Even though they are two very different approaches, together they make the perfect relationship advice.

A couple who can speak the same language can communicate more effectively and therefore get along better. In Keirsey’s theory, it is the abstract and concrete nature of the language both people use to communicate that makes the difference, while in Chapman’s it is the language you use to show your love that is important.

I would say, it is the temperament compatibility … Continue reading Express your Love with the Right Language

Celebratising Relationships – Are You A Kate Or A Rhianna?

When you think of your relationship, who would you prefer to compare yourself to? The fairy tale romance of Prince Wills and Kate, or that of the somewhat troubled Rihanna and Chris? Most people would say Kate and Wills of course, but it’s important to realise that no relationship is perfect, and even Kate and Wills had their ups and downs in the beginning. When looking at your own relationship try not to get too caught up with the fairy tale, and equally don’t rely on the thought that if it’s meant to be then it will be. Many young … Continue reading Celebratising Relationships – Are You A Kate Or A Rhianna?

The Five Photos To Pick For Your Online Dating Profile

Online dating in theory makes the dating game much easier. No longer do you need to trawl clubs and bars to try and find a potential date, and no longer do you have to try and learn everything you can about someone in five minutes over dinner.

With online dating you get the option to browse through potential partners as easily as you might browse through clothes. You can put forward your best attributes and you can look for people who are like you even before you contact them. In some cases that side will even be taken care of … Continue reading The Five Photos To Pick For Your Online Dating Profile

The Soul Lesson of Regretful Neglect I Have Learned

It’s Complicated

Even at the best of times, a relationship can be as confusing as it is comforting. When human emotions are involved, things can get complicated rather quickly. A jumble of mismatched feelings, the clashing of personalities and not to mention the hurdle of communication; these are just some of the many problems couples face. Needless to say, making it work is a hard rigorous process – yet at the same time it takes just one small mistake and happiness can quickly turn sour, and when it does fail, it’s painfully heartbreaking at the very least.

Whether it lasts … Continue reading The Soul Lesson of Regretful Neglect I Have Learned

The Premise of Saving a Marriage after an Affair

Your marriage seemed to shatter right before your very eyes when you found out about the affair. Your trust is shaken and your self-esteem took a downward leap.

Yes, adultery and affairs do exist but this does not mean you and your spouse have to forget your vows and end your relationship. You find yourself silently shouting, “God, help me save my marriage!”

Rebuilding trust after an affair is possible but only if you are both committed to the process, both believe in your marriage and are both determined to succeed.

Saving your marriage is the ultimate exercise in patience … Continue reading The Premise of Saving a Marriage after an Affair

Using the Law of Attraction to Make Dating a Success

Maybe you’ve heard about the success and increasing popularity of online dating and decided to give dating sites a shot.

Maybe it hasn’t gone so well for you. Perhaps you aren’t getting as many replies to messages as you’d hoped, or maybe nothing is sparking with the dates that you are getting.

Maybe your first dates don’t get a follow up, and they end up, well, as just first dates.

Looking back at them now, you realize they were all happening in ideal situations which could have resulted to a successful, long-lasting relationship. On the surface, there seems to be … Continue reading Using the Law of Attraction to Make Dating a Success

The 5 Signs you Might Date the Wrong Person

Experiencing feelings of doubt about a relationship is common, and successfully navigating the waters of this close connection requires making difficult decisions where a person must think deeply and honestly. Most people are happy to deny the truth and to remain in a relationship that might not be healthy. Taking the initiative to examine the relationship really is a good idea when it seems something might be wrong.

Basic and necessary elements that allow a connection to remain successful include physical contact, emotional connections, intellectual unions, and similar interests. These basic items must exist in harmony with one another … Continue reading The 5 Signs you Might Date the Wrong Person

The 5 Telltale Signs that He Is a Player

Many people will claim that nothing manages to hurt quite as deeply as love when things go wrong. When the possible consequences involve an indescribable amount of emotional pain the question of why we allow ourselves to put our affections on the line inevitably crosses the mind. The simplest available answer for this is that it is human nature to want to find someone to spend time with exclusively and to share your heart with.

Toying with someone’s emotions is cruel beyond any accurate description and it can severely damage a person when they are on the receiving end … Continue reading The 5 Telltale Signs that He Is a Player

How is Finding a Woman like Finding a Job?

I’m at the time of my life where I just want to settle down. The age old adage of getting married and maybe having a kid or two. It’s always been my dream, even when I was younger. Sadly, getting there and finding the right woman for me is anything but easy. I always invest a part of my soul into every relationship so it is hard, it’s stressful and with every failure I feel that I’ve lost something.

How are Job Hunting and Girl Hunting Similar?

It’s heartbreaking, that pang in my chest that just won’t go away when … Continue reading How is Finding a Woman like Finding a Job?