Boyfriend vs. Parents
I love my boyfriend to death weve been together almost 2 yrs. we were hiding it from our parents cause i know they wouldnt like him. know they know and want me to stop talking to him but i can't i love him and don't want to lose him. then i don't want my parents to be mad please help me
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i really think that maybe her parents not like him now if you know its for your own good i think it would be better for you to stop talking to him cause hes not good enough for you leave him right now im trying very hard myself to forget that guy that my parents didnt like either i now know i know if i would have listened to them at the beginning i wouldnt be here crying..
you cant help who you care about. if it is love then you pursue it. dont hide you feelings!
look sweetie im in the same boat,
me and my bf have been together 6 months.
My parents hate him yet they dont know him.
I personally say dont listen to your parents listen to your heart.
How old ru. I will be 18 in 2 months so im not listening to my parents.
If you love your bf dont let him go
because thats what your parents want. Do whats best for you
if you need anymore advice you can send me an email
if you are seriously in love with this boy and you want it to last but you dont want your parents to be mad then do something to show them how much you love him.
im not saying elope or anything because that just makes matters worse talk to your parents tell them that you love him and shout it if you have to do what you can to be with him. but dont leave your parents in the dust.
Look, I am in the same boat as you.
I have a boyfriend that my mom can't stand.
But if you love him then do what you think is best for you. No one can live your life but you.
If you really want to be with him let him know.
But be careful because he might not be any good for you.
damn babe. dats tuff stuff but imma tell u wut i did.
i wrote my parents a letter (it works betta cuz day listen) and i told him dat to me it didn't matter wut he be lookin like or wut he did in da past. wut
matters is dat no matter wut, for da past 8 months, he's been dere for me. he gave me respect an luv
when i didn't deserve it an all day needed to do was give him a chance an see wut he was really
like. day me him and now we go out wit each others familia an we have a good time. my parents really
luv him cuz day took da time to listen. i don't know
if ur sleepin wit him but if u are don't let ur parents kno cuz you won't be seein dat boi fo a while. if ya not don't cuz betrayin ya parents ain't kool and if
day like mine they'll luv u anyway but imma a virgin
so ya. it's worth waitin for. anyway...tlk to em and
tell em dat u luv dis boi and you'll do anything to be wit him. it doesn't matter wut day say cuz he treats u right and all u want is to be happy and he makes you feel dat way. holla at me if ya wanna chat.
Just do what your heart says because in a situation
like this your brain can end up making the wrong decision. Your heart knows who you love and
which path to follow. Sooner or later your parents
will understand. They will eventually relize just
how much you love him. If it is true love then you will be together no matter what. If Romeo and Juliet can do it then you can too. Just think though they had a harder time trying to hide whats inside from their own families. They would do anything for each other, they had something, a bond, and they were soul mates. If you and your boyfriend are ment to be then nothing will stop you from
seeing each other and you will find a way to be together in the end.
hope this helps,
BRANDI
girl if you really like this dude listen to your heart
ive been there too but i listen to my heart and didn't let my parents stop our relationship so listen to
your heart and dont let the boy go
sit down and talk to your parents and tell them about why u love him so much tell them how he makes you feel ask them how they would feel if their parents said they couldnt have each other and if that doesnt work go with your fist instinct
hey i know how you feel i was with someone for 2 years and i had to hide it at first they liked him but now they dont b/c how he treated me
but if your relatonship is fine then go with it your parents are not the ones who are wantin
to marry him or be with him so forget what they say and live your life loving who you want to love
i know how u feel. im dating a guy and my parents totally freaked out when they found out.
hey i know how u feel that is the same thing that to me
my parents found out that i was going out with someone
and they wanted to me him but i knew my mom and dad won't like him my 3 sisters told me to never bring my boyfriend home.
so don't worry if ever thing went well with my parents it might go well with your parents.
Advice from 18-year-old, 28-year-old and 38-year-old can be different. All are sincere advice. You will see what the decision brings you in your 18, 28 and 38 from them. You will be happy in 18 since you take fewer responsibilities in that age when you are just "grown up". You will not know if the decision is right till you live with him in 28 or till you become a parent in 38. It depends on if he is indeed worth. You are not able to see it clearly at this moment. You just assume your parents will not like him. I suppose the reason might be that you are too young or you know that he is not good enough. If you think he is good you can discuss with your parents some day. They might like him. It happens after discussion you might change your view about him. If you don't think your parents will like him, then there's an invisible problem. It seems you know he is not good enough. Love is great only when it is tested. Love means much more than being romantic and sweet. No man will treat his lover not nice but things will change when the lover becomes wife, especially, when the wife becomes a mother. Financial aspect might affect a relationship as well. You are too young to understand all these. If you regard your present love as an experience it might be easier. "Love" is not everything and it is something only when it's mature and when the lovers take responsibilities, otherwise it's just passion. Passion is momentary.
hi girl, just wanted to add this..the real reason why i even stepped into this website is cause i wanted answers...my boyfriend has had a ery bad past,..he has been intimate with his 3 exs before and a girl whom he didn't know nearly slept with him..honestly, i never wanted to meet someone like him..but then we just coincidentally were asked to perform together and fell in love,..my parents later knew and since my sis knew his past as well..i was really forbidden to meet him..i was helpless and many times felt like committing suicide cause i didn't know what i really wanted..after a while..he spoke to me saying that he wants to live with me forever and would do whatever it takes...he is my first boyfriend..everyone warned me against him..and mind u i made him run behind me just to prove his love...i didn't have much of a choice but to test his sincerity....now they found out again..my bf left his home n is living with his relative who supports our relationship..he has completed his education and really wants to make his mark in the army to prove everyone wrong and to provide for me..right now..there is noone else left for him except me..but everyone else in my family dun want him and i dun want to be ungrateful to my parents..now again for the third time we are still together but everyone thinks we broke up..i hate to lie and i really hate to live at this moment cause i dun know wat decisions to make in life...he has promised to keep me happy..but i have my dreams too..and i want to succeed...but i dun know if it will be possible...your situation is way better girl..waiting for my exam results..after which, my life will be determined by fate..take care..
It seems it's a really hard situation for you and I would ask you what if your boyfriend repeated his past again. Would you still love him? The answer to this question is the key I suppose.
i have a boyfriend thats more than my age but i love him to death , my parents , brother hate there parents , daughter , i love em so what should i do .
Hi all, im a 16 year old girl and have been with my boyfiend 4years! yeah along time i know but we love the hell outta each other, we have our ups and downs but who doesnt? lol. the situation is my mum and dad really dislike him because of what he has done to me in the past but i have forgiven him for that and we have both moved on. my mum and dad have lost there teather with it all now. My choices are to move out and have nothing to do with my parents or forget my boyfriend and the four years and do what my mum and dad want me to do...finish with my boyfiend and syat with them. Im in such a dilemma coz its so hard to chose coz its my family and boyfriend...? anyone any advice...please !!! xox
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