Ok here is the deal. I love my girlfriend a lot. We’ve been together a year. She told me today, that when she first saw a picture of me (we met thru a friend) she thought I wasn’t that great looking, that I had a great body but not face. Then after she met me in person, she told me she thought I was “a lil better”. Basically she made it clear she wasn’t attracted to me, even saying a quote “in the beginning I wasn’t sure if I was gonna keep talking to you or not” and I said becuz of how I looked, and she said yes. Now she tells me she loves me and all this and only wants me. But I mean Im a guy; I wanna feel attracted to her. Its like she only wants to be with me cuz she loves me and loves my personality. I don’t wanna leave her, but I don’t feel the same. What should I do??
- Buffguy
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November 27, 2009 at 12:53 pm -
hey look if da girl loves you not ur body i guess u can say it’s better. i mean u excuse da expression but ur such a retard 4 real if she were to like ur physical only as soon as she would find a hotter guy she would leave you, but then again it’s up to you if u feel uncomfortable well then do what your head not ur heart (cuz hearts r tricky most of da time)
November 27, 2009 at 12:53 pm -
if she didnt want to be with
you, then she wouldnt be ur girlfriend.
but shes with you so
you should be grateful.
if shes going out with you then that means shes attracted to you.
maybe not alot physically but she must a little bit. in other words.
GET OVA URSELF! SHES GOING OUT
WIV YOU SO DAT MEANS SHE
LYKS YOU!!!
November 27, 2009 at 12:53 pm -
You should be very happy that she wants you and not just because of your looks…i know you want to be attracted but maybe you can fix yourself a little bit more you know….but like..if you don’t want to leave her…you should talk to her and settle things straight..but you love her and she loves u and you don’t want to leave her…but you should not really worry about that…it’s only her opinion…how are you so sure that there isn’t another girl thinking that ur attractive or not??…you shouldn’t always keep ONE person’s opinion in your head…other ppl live in this world with their own opinions too you know…so..i hope you have a good relationship with your girlfriend!!