Here’s a my situation. My girlfriend of 8 months constantly asks and questions every move I make. She even checks my cell phone when Im out of the room. This has gone on 46 out of the 8 months we have been together. I take her on trips. I moved her in with me and pay all the bills. It’s who I am to be the provider. On top of all that I’m not a cheater! We stay @ home the majority of the time and really never go out with friends although I would like to more. Recently I went out with sum friends and begged her to come. She just didn’t want to go. I finally said I gotta get out and see some friends. 20 minutes later I’m getting phone calls from my girlfriend threatening our relationship and out looking 4 me. She shows up in the parking lot and is checking up on me. What do I do? Here I could write a book with other episodes. I think I am a little mad that I am in this situation but I really do care 4 this woman. I want to fix it but is it a lost cause 4 me to play doc?
- Unknown
Love is emotional, however, when we deal with love relationship, to calm down and to be rational are the keys to success. Similar to dealing with work relationship or career development, when reasons control emotions, we tend to be more successful in the long run; on the other hand, when emotions control mind, the smartest person can make the silliest and the most regrettable choice.
Firstly, you need to have a good start. When you begin to date, the moment you fell in love was emotional, nevertheless, you had another moment to decide if you would keep the relationship with your mate. When you decided to go on with your mate, it meant he was someone who was worth your feeling and who was trustworthy.
Secondly, a successful relationship is firmly based on mutual trust. Without this basis, this relationship is weak and will finally be gone. It’s just a question of time. In this way, the whole process will be a suffering torture.
Finally, if your mate cheats on you, your knowing the truth or not doesn’t help.
If your mate is honest while you are still worried, then your worries hurt your relationship; if your mate cheats on you while you still trust him / her, your trust in him / her might get back his / her heart; if your mate cheats on you, then it means he / she doesn’t love you, therefore, do you think it’s worth any effort begging him / her stay?
Love should be a joyful journey. If not, then don’t beg for it. At the moment, in present relationship, you are devoted. Your mate is the only one you think you will deeply love for your entire life; nonetheless, when the relationship is gone, time will heal the pain and you will fall in another relationship; at that time, you will know that your heart is broad enough to love again, someone else who deserves more.
sometimes things that girlfriends do because they think there man is cheating get a little out of hand. I know that im one of those girlfriends. Maybe she has been in a relationship with a guy that was cheating on her.I know thats why I am like that. Maybe you need to sit her down and talk to her about jow you feel. I hope I helped