Hi, my name is Marlyn. I need serious relationship advice. My boyfriend and I broke up last Thursday. I always thought that he liked 1 of my best friends. When I asked him he would always say that it wasn’t true. That I was the only person he loved and no one else. Some time later, things started changing. He didn’t called me like he did in the beginning and he would act all weird with me all the time. Like if he didn’t care about me anymore. One day I asked my friend to call him and start flirting with him. She said ok and she started talking to him. She asked him if he liked her and he said that he had liked her since first they met. Some days later he asked her out. She said no because he was my boyfriend and I was her friend. He told her that that didn’t matter. That I wasn’t going to know. At the moment I was really sad. I knew that I had to break up with him. One day, my friend called him. I was listening to everything they were saying. Right in that moment I just got in the conversation. I told him everything. HE didn’t say anything. He jus got quiet the whole time, and then he hung up. I miss him soo much. I can’t forget about him. I would like to know what to do because I know that he doesn’t deserve me but that doesn’t change my love for him. Please help me. How can I forget about him?
Tags: Advice, Bestfriend vs Lover, Break up, Forget Love
well ive been through this and i gotta tell you the best thing to do is get another guy.and not call him at all cuz then hes gonna keep acting like that.trust what that guy wants is for you to kiss ass so dont do it just stop calling him and sooner or later he’ll be all over you and hes gonna want you to get back with him so act like you dont care about him,make him think you dont like him.that way he’ll know that he lost someone that was worth it.
Of course you miss him; of course you cant forget about him but you will forget him; of course that doesnt change your love for him but someone else will change your love for him some day. Time helps you. Compared with Western Medicine, Chinese Medicine cant soothe the pain instantly but it heals the sickness in the long run as time does; if you want to soothe the pain as Western Medicine does, do a surgery to remove a certain memories. If the advice is harsh, please remember life is tough sometimes and we learn to be tough when tough time comes.