Poor Loser

We all make mistakes, do we? But with a narcissist (I will try to use more "a narcissist" instead of "narcissists", because obviously "one" is way enough), you should never make a mistake. It sounds good in some way, in that, with such a narcissist, you will be or at least towards the most perfect person, however, as a narcissist, he / she will never admit he / she makes mistakes.

It's not that narcissists, they don't make mistakes, on the contrary, they make the same amount of mistakes, or even worse, when they insist on their correctness, they may end up with a wrong decision.

As long as there's a mistake, the narcissist will blame you, but never blame himself / herself, even if the fault is extremely apparent at his / hers.

How will you deal with this? I suggest you never to argue with a narcissist over who is wrong if you do want to be with a him / her, since you will never win and the arguing never helps solve problems. It really doesn't matter who admits who is wrong, because in the narcissist's heart, he / she senses who is wrong (he / she is super smart don't forget). You should be the most broadminded to contain a narcissist if you do want to stay with him / her. Sometimes it's real tough, in that, he / she will keep blaming you till he / she is exhausted; it's better for you to take it as if he / she was actually blaming himself / herself if this helps.

Anyway, it's your decision whether to keep a relationship with a narcissist or not. The above is just my humble suggestion; mostly it's a mental torture to carry on said suggestion. - to be continued