We have been discussing about narcissists for a while. Now I would recommend you to visit a fascinating place called womAnsavers.com. You can search or post cheating or abusive men on the Internet’s largest database rating men! Would it be helpful if you could talk to a man’s ex-wife BEFORE you got involved? Well, for those women who crazily blindly fall in love with a man, this may not be so mighty; however, for those who are looking for relationship advice and come across this message, this probably helps, in that, those women are relatively rational. Over 25,000 men’s names were entered by women at womansavers.com! Curious? Then pay a visit. It has a relationship forum message board where you can find free abuse recovery advice.
Let’s have a try. When I clicked on “Abuse Help” in the relationship forum, I got a list of topics and I picked one called “How to heal from abuse?” then I read this real-life story and very sincere responses from real people.
One of the replies is very to the point. It says, herself suffered mentally with a man who verbally, emotionally abused her and there’s no way that she could explain her actions to herself, her friends, her children. She wished that he would’ve been a good guy. The bottom line is that anyone who intentionally hurts a loved one, continuously, isn’t a good person. We need to acknowledge that the behavior is destructive, regardless of the label of the abuser. Take back the power; don’t allow him to control you. One’s life is on oneself, not anyone else.
Is he cheating? Take this Is he cheating? to find out!
January 23, 2009 at 10:09 am -
Womansavers is extremely pathetic. There’s a person on there named Alan Sides, aka Alan G. Sides, aka Alan Gregory Sides, from Houlton, ME, Caribou, ME, Trenton, MI, Willard, OH, and anywhere else anyone will let him live, who has made up 3 profiles on a MAN, mind you, a MAN. By the way, Alan Sides is also a drug-addicted felon. Alan Sides is pissed off because this man’s mother won’t date him, and he’s slandering this man, his mother and their entire family on womansavers. Womansavers has been contacted and has chosen to do nothing about all these lies. It’s really pathetic that this site is allowing such sick lies and pathetic behavior. Womansavers is indulging in and spreading hate. It’s really sad that Stephany Alexander, creator of Womansavers must be a very miserable and sick person to have sat around and thought of doing such. These men have children who are reading horrible things about their fathers that most likely, many are untrue, just that of a scorned mate. It appears to me that Stephany Alexander falls into that category of Narcissistic Personality Disorder to be thinking she’s doing this country any justice by her sick website.
February 9, 2009 at 3:24 pm -
WS rocks. I love that site.
February 23, 2009 at 10:37 pm -
Thank God there is a site that will allow and collect information from women who have been, wronged, lied to, cheated on. I married a guy who was a pathological liar. Had I been exposed or been alerted to other women’s experiences with him MAYBE I could of saved myself and my family and my innocent daughter a lot of grief and not become involved with him. Keep up the good work!!!
November 27, 2009 at 12:20 pm -
Yes, womansavers is very useful. A female friend of mine recognised my wife’s posts and showed me. I was dumbstruck and digusted at what I found out about her, from her own words. The responses that egged on her delusional ranting sickened me. I divorced her as a result of what I read. Be careful what you are encouraged to say on this site – consider how you will feel when your spouse reads it. He eventually will, even if you don’t name him directly – its not hard to connect the dots!