Well I have been dating a 41 year old who has 2 kids for 2 years, as I am 30 I would like someday to remarry and possibly have another child but he is totally against it. I do love him very much but I told him I needed to go my own way because I have to stick to want I want. Now I met another man 31 with a daughter the same age as my daughter although I haven’t developed any feelings for him yet, I think my heart is with the other man. Now the 41 year old says he can’t not have me in his life and if marrying me is what it takes well he will have to give in to me. I am so confused now as to which way to turn because I think the 31 year old is my age and our daughters have the same interests, where as the other man’s kids are 10 and 6. Please help….
Agnes
Tags: Confused Relationship
I honestly think that when it comes to affairs of the heart you need to follow just that, your heart. Unfortunately your true feelings are not something that can be changed, you love who you love and that’s it. To break things off with the other guy is the only fair thing to do because your heart can’t be with the 31 year old when it truely belongs to another. Follow your heart.
Lisa, NJ