Then we kind of talked about what had happened to us. I told him i had really liked him. He said he “didn t know what to say”…he seemed generally speechless. After we talked, i messaged him asking if everything was different would i be good enough for him and his new life? He said the simple answer was yes but the problem wasn’t simple. he said he needed time to think. later on in the night he sent me a message “you do understand why i didnt kiss you tonight dont you?”. i replied. i fell asleep waiting for a message back. i messaged him in the morning and no reply. I messaged him again a week later, just asking how he was. He replied like nothing had really happened. I had told him the nigh ti had seen him that i would never get over him. He hasn’t mentioned anything we talked about that night since. I told him i was sick of trying with him and it wasnt worth it anymore. He never replied.
I’m sorry this is an essay and a half…i hope you will take the time to read it. i need help. I dont know if i should cut him out…try and forget him. Tell my boyfriend about him. I feel so bad liking someone else while i am with him. I love my boyfriend though…and i guess i only REALLY LIKE this other guy. But he just seems so awesome despite the fact he has changed. Maybe its just my memory of he was that i want back.
- Rabbit
September 5, 2009 at 3:53 am -
who do u think you are?? playing two guys along while you pretend to be little miss sweet, how would you feel if you were in love with your boyfriend but he was preoccupied with another "awesome" girl who was actually just treating him like a dick ( just like your fancy piece is doing to you), would you feel good if he was doing that to you?? let your boyfriend go! he may be hurt but at least he could maybe find a decent girl instead of a silly little girl who wants her cake and to eat it!
Bet your so immature you wont allow the truth to be posted!
November 27, 2009 at 12:00 pm -
sounds like you’re not fully in love with your boyfriend although you definetly care about him. you’re being a little unfair by being with him if you can care this much about another guy, especially for a guy who doesn’t treat you as well as you deserve. the “other” guy that you talk about sounds like your stereotypical smoozer and im sure hes a lot of fun and makes you feel good when you’re around him, but you either have to pass him up for now and work on things with your boyfriend, or break up with the boy and see if this other guy wants to take you seriously. if not, you may realize that neither are the ones for you, or maybe you’ll find yourself really happy with this other guy — but be honest with the boyfriend, its only fair sweetie
November 27, 2009 at 12:01 pm -
hey i think u should 4get him after all he treat u badly.u should tell ur bf bout it.of course it’ll make him feel uneasy or mad or sumthin but at least git it of ur bac.and mayb he’ll help u.and u did say he luv u.