She sounds like a woman that doesn’t really understand what she wants. That is pretty common.
The conflict is that her emotional side is looking for one type of partner, perhaps a forceful and demanding ‘bad boy’, that will take control of her life, while the rational side is looking for a sweet guy that she can manipulate.
If you really want to keep her, you need to learn to be both. Just role play a little. On weekends, put on your boots and leathers and act like the man in charge. During the week, be sweet and romantic.
You seem to be very worried about her feelings, you need to drop that on the weekends and be more interesting.
She is bored with you. I’m bored with you after 2 paragraphs.
I see this as a personality issue.
A person’s past usually tells something for the future. Her having been married six times was a very evident “reference” for you while you were never actually in love with anyone else but unfortunately this time with her. It’s not that she intended to cheat on you, but that her personality makes her not be able to stick to one true love as you do. Next time don’t assume you will be the 7th but the “true” one.
It’s not about trust. When she promised you passionately, at that moment, she meant it I suppose. The emotion is the very reason for her to be passionate for a moment while regret when she calms down. If she doesn’t want to tell you the reason, then try to forget it and start your new life. It could be that she just wanted to be free while longing for love, quite contradictive, nothing else.
You also mentioned about some serious issues. Why do you still love her when you do know she has some serious issues? If she wanted to end the relationship many times before, then she would finally do so. Her mind told her to end but her emotion told her to come back to you, that’s it.
My suggestion for you is to move on, to forget her and to find someone else like yourself.
She sounds like a woman that doesn’t really understand what she wants. That is pretty common.
The conflict is that her emotional side is looking for one type of partner, perhaps a forceful and demanding ‘bad boy’, that will take control of her life, while the rational side is looking for a sweet guy that she can manipulate.
If you really want to keep her, you need to learn to be both. Just role play a little. On weekends, put on your boots and leathers and act like the man in charge. During the week, be sweet and romantic.
You seem to be very worried about her feelings, you need to drop that on the weekends and be more interesting.
She is bored with you. I’m bored with you after 2 paragraphs.
I see this as a personality issue.
A person’s past usually tells something for the future. Her having been married six times was a very evident “reference” for you while you were never actually in love with anyone else but unfortunately this time with her. It’s not that she intended to cheat on you, but that her personality makes her not be able to stick to one true love as you do. Next time don’t assume you will be the 7th but the “true” one.
It’s not about trust. When she promised you passionately, at that moment, she meant it I suppose. The emotion is the very reason for her to be passionate for a moment while regret when she calms down. If she doesn’t want to tell you the reason, then try to forget it and start your new life. It could be that she just wanted to be free while longing for love, quite contradictive, nothing else.
You also mentioned about some serious issues. Why do you still love her when you do know she has some serious issues? If she wanted to end the relationship many times before, then she would finally do so. Her mind told her to end but her emotion told her to come back to you, that’s it.
My suggestion for you is to move on, to forget her and to find someone else like yourself.