My boyfriend and I have been dated for 2 yrs; we always talk abt getting married but he didn’t propose even I told him I wish to settle down. He put all his priority to his career so he didn’t propose even a few mths later; when I wanted to break up with him, he came n beg me and said he was already planning it but I find my own pride can not take it, as I wish he can be like other man who can give the girlfriend a surprise and fairy tale experience.
Inside my heart I know he has every intention to propose and be with me and he is serious about this relationship. I know the reason he didn’t pop the question as soon as I expect is because he is always busy with his job and he usually doesn’t have time to plan the proposal. But, whenever I think that as a girl, I have to initiate the proposal I get really angry with myself and with him. I was even contemplating to leave him so that he can feel bad for not taking the lead in this issue. But I also know he is a great guy, a responsible man and someone I want to spend my lifetime with.
- Jane
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November 27, 2009 at 11:54 am -
If you get really angry to initiate the proposal because of being a girl, then in the future, even if you two get married, it’s more likely that you will keep getting angry when he’s too busy to accompany you when you need him. A successful relationship needs both sides to work on and apparently his being busy is not changeable and you are a very sentimental girl.