Trouble trusting boyfriend
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months now. I'm still having trouble trusting him. He's gave me a million reasons for me to trust him. Even his friends told me he is the most faithful person they know. In my past relationships I've been cheated on many of times. When he goes out, I always ask him questions like "were there girls there? did they touch you? did u flirt with them?" It's tearing us apart. We both want to be together for the rest of our lives. We recently had a conversation about this whole trust issue and we almost broke up over it. He told me that if we have to have this conversation again its over. Please help, our relationship is a stake because of me. I want to be able to trust him, I just have a mental block in my head. I suppose I'm doing this to protect myself from getting hurt again. That's probably why I ask all those questions.
Thank you,
Kalena Lawson
2 Comments:
Your boyfriend gets very good references, in that, friends say he's trustworthy. Just as you are different from some other girls who might cheat on others, you too are a trustworthy person. People are different. Your ex-boyfriends cannot represent all boys. You should be able to judge by yourself whether to trust your boyfriend. Trust is something very vital in a relationship since you can only win one's heart but not one's body. I hope you can help yourself because others cannot help you. If you cannot trust your boyfriend, you will finally lose him, because he won't be willing to be distrusted all the time. Ask yourself what if you were him. Good luck.
I feel like you really have belief in your boy friend,since trust is important in every relationship as Relationships are an integral part of our lives and the relationship between lovers, wife and husband.
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