My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months now. I’m still having trouble trusting him. He’s gave me a million reasons for me to trust him. Even his friends told me he is the most faithful person they know. In my past relationships I’ve been cheated on many of times. When he goes out, I always ask him questions like “were there girls there? did they touch you? did u flirt with them?” It’s tearing us apart. We both want to be together for the rest of our lives. We recently had a conversation about this whole trust issue and we almost broke up over it. He told me that if we have to have this conversation again its over. Please help, our relationship is a stake because of me. I want to be able to trust him, I just have a mental block in my head. I suppose I’m doing this to protect myself from getting hurt again. That’s probably why I ask all those questions.
Thank you,
Kalena Lawson
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February 1, 2012 at 9:14 pm -
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year. He hides everything from me won’t add me to facebook which is kind of weird.. hasn’t let me meet any of his friends. I’ve met his family and gone on vacations with them. But something doesn’t feel right. I was 12 weeks pregnant until 3 days ago. If I didn’t go through with a abortion he would’ve left me. I was raised without my dad and it wasn’t easy and I didn’t wanna go through that alone with him.
February 2, 2012 at 1:40 am -
Hi nj,
I think that your boyfriend doesn’t deserve you.