In a marriage, one is supposed to respect the other one’s privacy, on the other hand, the actual privacy is supposed to be limited. Privacy has its trait, that is, it is willing to open to those who respect it. Human being is actually not willing to hold out on too much and the more you respect his privacy, the more you trust him, the more he is willing to open to you, thus, the less the actual privacy there will be. On the contrary, if you forbid his privacy, not respecting his privacy and ask him to absolutely be honest to you, then this will result in the distrustful ambience, and even force the other one to cheat and tell the lies.
Apart from the distance, love also requires you to cherish it. When you set the other one free, you should not abuse the freedom, but have your self-discipline. A good love relationship is supposed not to confine the other one’s freedom based on your trust and at the same time not to abuse your own freedom based on your will to cherish.
Keep distance, set free, don’t abuse freedom and are those enough? What if there is problem? – Forgiving. Forgiving is a way of cherishing. Real life’s love with certain regrets is the real love between real men and women. Of course, this doesn’t mean since you would forgive me, I then intend to break the rule; what if she wouldn’t forgive you? You can never tell before it happens and there should not be a single thought by luck. What’s more, you should never revenge, just because he broke the rule once, you then also break the rule, then the revenge circle will never end and will finally result in separation. Of course, this kind of incidents should avoid and should only happen once or twice, that is, rarely, otherwise, even the most forgiving person cannot believe in this love, or has the reason to doubt about whether this casanova has the ability to be a spouse.
