Choice
Lover vs Parents
The related cases we will refer to when we address this topic are under “Lover vs Parents” menu.
“No one can live your life but you”; this is true, however, when your parents dislike your boyfriend, the situation is not so simple but getting tough.
The first question you should ask yourself is: why do my parents dislike my boyfriend, and what’s more, why do they want me to leave my boyfriend? The answer makes things clear: your parents love you and want you to live a happy life in the future, while based on their own experiences and knowledge, they are afraid that you will not be happy living with your boyfriend in the future, especially when your boyfriend had a bad past. In this case, your parents are reasonable. If they don’t care about you, they won’t even be concerned about whom you are with and will hope you get married and leave them soon.
If you are seriously being in love with this boy and you want it to last but you don’t want your parents to be mad, then do something to show them how much you love him, tell them why you love him so much and ask them how they would feel if their parents said they couldn’t have each other.
If you have reasons, your parents will listen and understand you, since they love you. If your parents are not convinced, then it means there’s something wrong and you will probably be aware of what’s wrong. Grecia leos told you, “If I would have listened to them (her parents) at the beginning I wouldnt be here crying.”
On the other hand, I hope that your parents will take time communicating with you instead of simply forbidding you to meet him.
