My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. We live 60 miles from each other. He lived with me and my sons, also his son, for over 4 years. He told me the other day that he loves me but he isn’t being in love with me. He is scared to end our relationship because of what we both have invested and thinks the feelings will come back. I’m so confused. We are both in our mid 40′s. There isn’t another person in the picture, I just think he is confused. He has never been in a relationship this long and we have reached a comfortable stage that he can’t get past.
What can I do ? He calls me everyday and we see each other on weekends. It’s just not the same. He doesn’t tell me he loves me anymore and treats me like his buddy. I feel inadequate and don’t know what I can do to save this. I love this man with all of my heart.
- Kim
March 11, 2009 at 5:41 am -
Your boyfriend will treat you like his buddy till there is another person in the picture in order not to hurt you. Unless this another person will never appear in the following 40 years, you have to face the truth.