Today we will move on to another personality disorder; it’s called “Paranoia”. The most explicit sign of a person with paranoia is that he is overly or constantly suspicious. A paranoid person grasps any single piece of evidence that supports his mistrust and ignores or misinterprets any other evidence to the contrary in order to confirm his doubts, and he continually does so. A person suffering from paranoia continues to question the loyalty of others.
So how will a paranoid partner possibly hurt you if he is just on his guard to protect himself? When you start to date with him and when his love for you goes intense, you will get the answer. In a love relationship, this suspicion usually exhibits unreasonable jealousy.
Jealousy on small doses is cute and essential on a relationship. It is a sign that your partner is being in love with you. It sparks passion and romance, and can enhance a couple’s devotion to each other.
However, when it’s too much and out of control it will eventually destroy the relationship between you and your partner, because it eats away at the one thing that holds you together: Trust. Overdose jealousy leads to numerous fights that totally expose your negative qualities.
For a person with paranoia, jealousy is a byproduct of his own issues with low self-confidence and low self-esteem. To protect himself, he sees other people’s intentions as negative, rather than finding any fault in himself.
Therefore, it’s important for you to find a confident person who “matches” you to date. Please do not humor your paranoid partner who tortures you in the name of “love”. The more you humor him, the crazier he will become, the deeper you will be trapped in, the more breakup cost of love you will face in the future.
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March 18, 2010 at 5:19 am -
Good info. Where can I get more information about this. keep it coming.