I have dated this guy off and on for 6 years. The reason it has been off and on again so much is because we are both stubborn. I believe he is really passionate about his feelings for me but he can never talk to me about how he feels. He seems to always play head games and say one thing but mean something else. I really like this guy but we seem to be at different points in our lives. He also never wants to hang out with my friends and doesn’t like to do some things I do. Satuday we had some people over and I invited some friends he didn’t know. He ended up getting very upset and punching through a door. Needless to say, I asked him to move and he was out by Sunday night. We haven’t talked since but I am not sure I am completely ready to call it quits. This is the first outburst he has had like this. Do I end it or try to work it out?
- Kim
August 14, 2009 at 1:30 pm -
If he is stubborn, you will need to be more expressive, especially if you believe he is really passionate about his feelings for you.
If he can never talk to you about how he feels, you will need to talk to him about how you feel then tell him you want him to express how he feels he will follow up.
When he plays head games, just let him be and don't take things too seriously. He can't change his personality. If you are able to know his meaning something else, then satisfy him and let him get what he really wants, he will be happy and love you more.
You need to have a long talk to him about the above concerns and try to let him open to you. Communication is the key.
As for stay or not, it's up to you to make the decision. If you truly love him and think you can leave each of you a personal space, then there's still hope.