I feel like my husband is a narcissist, but can’t be sure. He obsesses over the college where he graduated and everything that he associates with. He displays everything related to his college’s name so he can visibly see the name when he passes by it. He speaks to himself (pretends to be an announcer at one of his college’s games), he speaks in third person always (”Daddy loves you”, “You need to love your husband”, etc.), can’t apologize (if when that miracle happens, it is only spoken as, “My bad”. He has to be forced to apologize and does so in a rage. He has a spoiled brat attitude, deserving and entitled.) He displays overwhelming pride for his relatives, his childhood, friends, etc., as long as that pride is a direct association to who “he thinks” he is. He is right, never wrong and will pass blame or avoid anything that denys him that glory (which happens to be me!). He once said that the reason all my boyfriends broke up with me was because they weren’t going to put up with me. He wasn’t even around at the time I dated the other guys, how would he know this? Furthermore, I broke up with the majority of the guys I dated and had never even discussed this with him. Narcissistic telephathy, I guess!
Am I off the mark or does he seem to be narcissistic? I’m at a loss here.
Thank you.
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Tags: Narcissist
This narcissistic husband fits for the following criteria:
1. Poor Loser
2. Admiration
3. Narcissist Wife
He requests constant admiration while you offer him the opposite and this further enrages the poor loser.
Since you don't fit for the ideal role of a narcissist's wife, he assumes that your ex-es couldn't put up with you for the same reason.
Please read carefully each cases and comments at Narcissist and find your wayout.
Good luck.
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