Comments on: Right Guy http://www.understandyourrelationship.com/2009/10/right-guy.html UnderstandYourRelationship.com gives you quality and free relationship advice on narcissist, boyfriend and parents, friendship and love relationship and many more. Thu, 02 Feb 2012 01:40:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Annahttp://www.understandyourrelationship.com/2009/10/right-guy.html/comment-page-1#comment-189 Anna Thu, 18 Mar 2010 15:39:28 +0000 http://www.loveisdream.com/relation/?p=128#comment-189 I agree! Someone who is impulsive about marriage may make bad decisions. You've already been divorced once, take things slow now! Only you know what's best for you, take your time and feel things out. The answer will become clear if you don't worry about it too much. Impulsiveness leads to bad decisions, but so does over-thinking! My advice: relax and enjoy dating! I agree! Someone who is impulsive about marriage may make bad decisions. You’ve already been divorced once, take things slow now! Only you know what’s best for you, take your time and feel things out. The answer will become clear if you don’t worry about it too much. Impulsiveness leads to bad decisions, but so does over-thinking! My advice: relax and enjoy dating!

]]> By: Min Minhttp://www.understandyourrelationship.com/2009/10/right-guy.html/comment-page-1#comment-188 Min Min Wed, 28 Oct 2009 18:42:56 +0000 http://www.loveisdream.com/relation/?p=128#comment-188 One of the biggest mistakes the second marriage makes is to find an antithesis of one's ex. <br /><br />Antithesis means the direct or exact opposite. Fortunately enough, the new guy has all what your ex doesn't have; on the other hand, it usually implies that he doesn't have some of the essential virtues your ex is good at. Those merits maybe something you got used to so much in your daily life for years that you even overlooked till you miss them in your new relationship.<br /><br />A failed marriage doesn't necessarily imply a bad ex, but just an incompatible combination.<br /><br />The new guy's neediness and impulsiveness apparently showed that his decision would not be a wise one. His impulsiveness fits for the role of lover but not for that of husband.<br /><br />I understand your dilemma. If you refused you would feel regret to lose such a so far wonderful person. That's why I'm not gonna take this responsiblity. Just to imagine how impulsive this new guy could be when he makes some other decisions in life is worrisome enough. One of the biggest mistakes the second marriage makes is to find an antithesis of one's ex.

Antithesis means the direct or exact opposite. Fortunately enough, the new guy has all what your ex doesn't have; on the other hand, it usually implies that he doesn't have some of the essential virtues your ex is good at. Those merits maybe something you got used to so much in your daily life for years that you even overlooked till you miss them in your new relationship.

A failed marriage doesn't necessarily imply a bad ex, but just an incompatible combination.

The new guy's neediness and impulsiveness apparently showed that his decision would not be a wise one. His impulsiveness fits for the role of lover but not for that of husband.

I understand your dilemma. If you refused you would feel regret to lose such a so far wonderful person. That's why I'm not gonna take this responsiblity. Just to imagine how impulsive this new guy could be when he makes some other decisions in life is worrisome enough.

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