Im 48 and my girlfriend is 20. We love each other very much in spite of our large age difference. She has kept the relationship secret from her parents for almost a year because she is afraid they will be very angry. Her grandmother died a couple weeks ago and she is really reluctant to tell them. Any advice?
- Socal
Unless she can keep the secret forever, she has to tell her parents, the earlier the better; never do this secret thing again, since it will finally hurt yourself, the deeper feeling the more hurt.
Since her grandmother just passed away, she can tell her parents a few months later. Your task is to figure out how to convince her parents.
If you need my advice on how to convince her parents, I would have to convince you first.