My boyfriend and I were together for 4 and a half years. We have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years and have been able to make it work thus far. We broke up for 4 months and he came crawling back saying he made a mistake and will do anything to be with me. He was amazing. Two weeks ago he broke up with me saying he couldn’t give me what I needed and that he just wanted space to be able to do his own thing. I found out last week that he told his old roommate that he wants to marry me, but being together is bad timing. I wrote him a letter telling him how I feel and that I understand we shouldn’t be together anymore because I am so hurt he would leave again. We don’t talk, although he called me last weekend and asked me to come see him and I did. Everything seemed fine, but then he said it was a mistake and haven’t heard from him since. What should I do?
- Brittany
February 19, 2010 at 9:56 am -
It’s just a commitment issue. You can choose to go around in the same circle, or to go out of the circle. It’s simple, but not easy. To get out now is hard to do and the inertia is still working; either way involves pain. To be painful forever or for now is your choice.
February 21, 2010 at 9:12 am -
girl going round in cycles is fustrating the only thing you can do for yourself is to folow your heart.do you really love this guy?