Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now. He used to tell me everything and would basically do anything to help me. This past weekend me and him had gotten into a fight that caused us to break up for the moment. The next couple of hours we are right back together. But then the next night he went out with my cousin and his cousin almost all night. He likes to talk to them & his step mom (fyi Which is my brothers ex wife) and they tell him what to do and give him advice. Well someone told him something and now hes being completely rude and not telling me anything anymore. He is extremely rude at times. There is NO talking to him about anything. When me and him are around his friends I don’t exist. He doesn’t inform me about anything that goes on in his life anymore. Hes becoming more dependent on his step mom for everything than anyone else in this world. He talks to my cousin and his cousin about things that he tells me last. Its like he does not trust me anymore.
What is going on? Why is he doing this? Is there a solution to all of this drama?
- Bonnie
Tags: Boyfriend Change
The reason that you broke up in the past week seems important but we don’t know what it was and his step mom makes things even worse.
If he really wanted to break up with you, he could simply do so. Therefore, there are 2 possibilities:
1. he simply wants to get rid of you. Why do you want to know the reason? If he wants to break up with you just because his step mom influences him to do so, do you think that he is worth of your further efforts and feelings?
2. they think that you treated him rudely in the past and just want to change your positions. If this is the case, do you think that you are interested in such a game?