For the last month I have been heavily flirted with by a Junior at my high School. Our relationship started because we both happen to be in the same clubs, and have common interests. Although, he often flirts with me and calls me beautiful, he mentions right afterward that he has a girlfriend who goes to a different school. I know it’s not right but I have developed feelings for him, and I’m worried that he may be a) worried about the fact that I’m two years younger than him, b) Stringing me along, c) putting me in the friends category. I don’t know what to do in order to make him understand that I’m interested in him. Yet at the same time I don’t want to ruin the relationship that we have now. What’s a girl to do?
-Winnie
March 2, 2010 at 5:11 pm -
It’s not wise for you to develop feelings for him. You’re just one of his candidates. He won’t be hurt without you, while you will. Even if you win him over his gf, he will do the same to other girls in the future.