I met up with my old boyfriend after 22 years we e-mailed everyday and talked on the phone also everyday for 2.5 months. We met up and He said he loved me still and would wait for me to get divorced he also is getting divorced then one day he said he didn’t love me and the calls stopped (he got a $300 phone bill) but he still e-mails me and texts me. He says he wants to just be friends but I think there is more to it.You don’t talk that much just for that when you could get it anywhere else. He also made a lot of promises that I believed and he has reneged on them. He told me it was just for sex but He even told his Mom and all his co-workers about me and his wife. I am really confused about what to do I want him more than anything. We only broke up because his family thought I was beneath him. We seem to also have more in common than before. My present husband also says he loves me but I have no feelings for him like I should. What should I do to get the love of my life back and finally be truly happy. I should state he lives 2 hrs away next to my brother in law and near my best friend so I am near him often but not a lot.
- Cindy Pearson
December 31, 2011 at 3:45 pm -
Finish one relationship before you start another one, period. You are confusing old feelings … devoting time, energy and emotions to an old remembered relationship instead of trying EVERYTHING first with your COMMITTED realtionship! IF you feel you have done everything and are truly ready to leave your marriage, then do so. Not for anyone else. IT sounds as if you are confused, let down and seeking out love. Trust me, do it this way and you will taint your next relationship badly. Finish old business first.