Help ! I’ve been with a guy for 6 years and cheated on him with my first love when I was 14 and I’m pregnant and don’t know which guy it is, whether it’s Harry or Josh?
And I’m confused about who I should be with. I kicked Josh the fiancé of 6 years out and cheated on him but I could trust him, yet he drank and hit me a couple of times, however, he wanted a family and to get married.
The ex Harry I’ve been dating for a month and he is successful but moody all the time and he thinks the kid’s his and wants to be dad.
But I love Josh and even after I cheated on Josh with Harry, Josh is still willing to be with me and get back to how it was before I cheated with Harry.
I’m confused. Should I go back to my ex of 6 years or work out the kinks with the Harry and we’ve only been dating a month and I’m so stressed and pregnant, help?
- Emily
June 3, 2010 at 3:24 pm -
Hi Emily,
Josh or Harry, we can’t pick for you.
Without the child, things were simpler. Josh the fiancé of 6 years. You’re not perfect either. e.g. You cheated on your fiancé of 6 years to such extent.
With the child, things are more complicated. The child and his / her father have the right to know who is the father. You must work things out when the child is born.
If your fiancé Josh is the father, then the things are easier.
If Harry is the father and if you pick Harry, then you still can work things out.
If Harry is the father and if you pick Josh, then you must work things out about the child. As you said, Harry is successful and wants to be a dad, do you think it’s possible that Harry will take care of the child, and you stay with Josh?