How do I choose between the people I have feelings for? (Okay, I’m bisexual.) I’m dating someone that I really love. There is a long distance between us and we rarely get to talk because her parents are against her dating girls. We’ve been through a lot and I’ve had the next few years for us planned out perfectly. I can’t really picture my life without her. But, recently I’ve been talking to this guy online. He’s really sweet and he likes me. I kinda like him too, but he knows that I have someone. It’s hard for me because I know I’m leading him on since I’m taken and he’s had a bad past with girls. It’s hard choosing between the two because he’s more entertaining but lives further away, and she’s close but still far and I love being around her, we have a lot in common, and we’ve been through a lot. I don’t want to give her up because I know I’ll be throwing away a good relationship, friendship, and everything we’ve put into it, but at the same time I don’t want to string him along. I’m afraid that if I tell him that things need to lighten up between him, he’ll deny my request for a simple friendship and I don’t want to lose or hurt him. What should I do?
- Katheryn
August 17, 2010 at 7:59 am -
Im sorry Katheryn, you can’t be greedy, and you can’t take advantage of someone else’s love feeling for you either. You have no ground of keeping your friendship with the guy, because it’s an imbalanced relationship.