the-other-guy

Another Guy from my Past has Re-entered my Life

I have been in this relationship for nine years and have two kids. I love him and I know that he loves me but we don’t trust each other and we don’t communicate. We have been on and off for the past year. It is hard to let go but I am at the point now that something has to give and another guy from my past has reentered my life. I need to know if I should give up on my relationship and if so I need to make sure it’s not because of the other guy.

– Jamie

Great memory

Min Min says:
October 1, 2010 at 11:08 am
Hi Jamie,

As in any relationship, your relationship has its issues.

However, as far as I understand, you and your boyfriend have two kids, you have been together for long and you love each other.

Apparently, if you were to give up on your current relationship, it’s because of the other guy from your past who reentered your life, otherwise, you have already given up on your current boyfriend.

If the trust and communication issue just happened in the past year, are you willing to work on it? Are you willing to communicate with your boyfriend to work on it together?

The answer key is whether you’re willing, he’s willing, or both of you are willing. Are you sure there’ll be no issue in another relationship if trust and communication is not an issue?

jyothi says:
October 19, 2010 at 5:29 am
Once you have to think about your kids before you are thinking selfilishly about yourself

sarah says:
October 12, 2010 at 12:18 am
i am in love with my boyfriend and we are expecting a child this april. things are not going very good for us at all! All we do is fight and argue. he works non stop and always finds some thing he has to do before spending time with me. we have been seperated for about 2 months now trying to work or problems out, but its going no were. so i have just told him im thinking about moving to another province, and now he wants to change and make things better. we have been talking about changing for ever and he hasnt done a thing?what do i do? leave? stay here and try again to work things out? help!!

jyothi says:
October 19, 2010 at 5:28 am
If the work is the only reason for your fight
I think you should support for doing more hard work and make him realize that you are the only pearson where he can feel relax
Dear it is totally upon you to make your relation good and i think you can prove it to be a really nice girl friend to him