Well me and my boyfriend broke up b-4 valentines day and b-4 I gave him my bff home number and he called her and talked and all out of no where he broke up with me b-cuz he was afraid to fall in love with me. He stopped calling or talking to me when I went to my other bff’s house on Wed. night for church. So I started writing poems and crap. They kept talking to each other. And then today they go out and every-1 at skool asks if it bothers me and I tell them no. My mind says let him go but my heart says hold on. Ya..but see I like his “ex” best friend..and he likes me..so we go sk8ing and I turn emo again…we go outside and flirt. I felt bad but happy. However, I just really want my ex-boyfriend to at lease talk or call…even walk up and tell me he still cares bout me. I mean..Im so confused…and this has been happening since 1month and 2weeks ago..just plz help
- Confused Emo
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December 7, 2009 at 2:13 pm -
He shows it in a weird way but he still loves u.
u should try to forgive him and he will see what u hav dun
and he will respect u more
December 7, 2009 at 2:14 pm -
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE BOYS ARE BOYS THERE NOT GOIN TO CHANGE FOR SHIT
December 7, 2009 at 2:16 pm -
Being happy or being painful, which one is more important for you? If you choose the latter, then put up with it. But as far as I know there is definitely not only one man in this world out there for you. You will find someone better if you think being happy is more important. Love lost its significance when you are painful with someone who doesn’t deserve you at all.
If your bf broke up with you after talking to your bff you might need to ask your bff about this and why he’s afraid of falling in love with you. What did your bff tell him? Was it something about you that made him uncomfortable? If he’s afraid of falling in love with you, your being with his “ex” best friend may not be wise if you still love your ex. This will make him feel even more uncomfortable and make things worse. So you can try to talk to him again and tell him you love him but not anyone else and you believe he’s the same and you wish to start over again; if this doesn’t work then your ex is probably a very rational person and it’s better for you to just forget him. For rationals, even if they love someone, as long as they decide to leave the person for a reason they deem is right, they will leave; even if they are painful they will leave you painful because they want to finish the pain.