I think the problem is that neither woman is interested in you at all. I’m sorry to say it, because you seem to really care about them both. Ask yourself why you want two women whom you can’t have. Is it a commitment issue? I think you need to find someone who really is perfect for you and not someone who is unavailable. :-) Good luck!
Sorry to hear of your situation- and by the way, best of wishes. It may be too late to have a happy ending with either of these women. Maybe in future relationships- try to find someone not already involved. maybe ask yourself why you are drawn to commited women. do you have a fear of commitment? Also- these women are having a relationship with you while already being involved. is that the moral of “the woman” that you’d consider marrying?
Well I read ur story. bad things always seem to happen to the best of people. but hey, look at it like this, if you can get over this little obstacle of life then you are ready for bigger opportunities and decisions. i’ve learned that nobody else (not even a best friend) can tell you what to do in a relationship unless they are in it. the only thing they can do is be there to catch you when you fall back and need some pushing up.
Well I think you are picky try someone different i tried it and it worked I guess well try some one that is opposite than u well besides the sex of them i mean if you like rock and she likes hip hop you get it dont u? Get some one who loves u 4 who you are. its hard trust me ive gone threw a million guys. waiting 4 that one who appreciates me 4 who i am and you think that if you cant get either one of them you cant get nobody im sorry but yeah
As much as u want them there has to be someone else out there for u i promise and my rule is never make a promise u cant keep if god wills u will find someone that is just your type and if god wills u wont! thats just the way life goes
December 7, 2009 at 2:19 pm -
I think the problem is that neither woman is interested in you at all. I’m sorry to say it, because you seem to really care about them both. Ask yourself why you want two women whom you can’t have. Is it a commitment issue? I think you need to find someone who really is perfect for you and not someone who is unavailable. :-) Good luck!
December 7, 2009 at 2:20 pm -
Sorry to hear of your situation- and by the way, best of wishes.
It may be too late to have a happy ending with either of these women.
Maybe in future relationships- try to find someone not already involved.
maybe ask yourself why you are drawn to commited women. do you have a fear of commitment?
Also- these women are having a relationship with you while already being involved. is that the moral of “the woman” that you’d consider marrying?
December 7, 2009 at 2:21 pm -
Well I read ur story. bad things always seem to happen to the best of people. but hey, look at it like this, if you can get over this little obstacle of life then you are ready for bigger opportunities and decisions. i’ve learned that nobody else (not even a best friend) can tell you what to do in a relationship unless they are in it. the only thing they can do is be there to catch you when you fall back and need some pushing up.
December 7, 2009 at 2:22 pm -
Well I think you are picky try someone different i tried it and it worked
I guess well try some one that is opposite than u well besides the sex of them i mean if you like rock and she likes hip hop you get it dont u?
Get some one who loves u 4 who you are. its hard trust me ive gone threw a million guys. waiting 4 that one who appreciates me 4 who i am
and you think that if you cant get either one of them you cant get nobody im sorry but yeah
December 7, 2009 at 2:22 pm -
As much as u want them there has to be someone else out there for u i promise and my rule is never make a promise u cant keep if god wills u will find someone that is just your type and if god wills u wont! thats just the way life goes