Comments for Relationship Advice

Comment on He Changed by Min Min

Min Min — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 04:51:42 +0000

The reason that you broke up in the past week seems important but we don’t know what it was and his step mom makes things even worse.

If he really wanted to break up with you, he could simply do so. Therefore, there are 2 possibilities:

1. he simply wants to get rid of you. Why do you want to know the reason? If he wants to break up with you just because his step mom influences him to do so, do you think that he is worth of your further efforts and feelings?

2. they think that you treated him rudely in the past and just want to change your positions. If this is the case, do you think that you are interested in such a game?

Comment on Relationship or Friends by Min Min

Min Min — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 22:11:42 +0000

It’s not wise for you to develop feelings for him. You’re just one of his candidates. He won’t be hurt without you, while you will. Even if you win him over his gf, he will do the same to other girls in the future.

Comment on His Ex by Min Min

Min Min — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 21:16:20 +0000

It’s not about trust, but about how you feel. Perhaps your boyfriend lied, perhaps not; this doesn’t change how you feel. Your situation is equal to the one that your boyfriend has a troublesome child you have to face; to accept or not, it’s up to you.

Comment on Religion Conflict by Asa W

Asa W — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:52:31 +0000

Thanks for this blog. I like what I read. I wish more blogs were like this. Thank you.

Comment on Three and Out by superslick

superslick — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 14:12:24 +0000

girl going round in cycles is fustrating the only thing you can do for yourself is to folow your heart.do you really love this guy?

Comment on Three and Out by Min Min

Min Min — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 14:56:47 +0000

It’s just a commitment issue. You can choose to go around in the same circle, or to go out of the circle. It’s simple, but not easy. To get out now is hard to do and the inertia is still working; either way involves pain. To be painful forever or for now is your choice.

Comment on Religion Conflict by Min Min

Min Min — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 22:26:17 +0000

Why do you so worry about what hasn’t yet happened? What do you actually worry about? Why are you not confident about your boyfriend?

If you don’t tell your parents, you will never know their response. You are worrying about something that will never happen.

Your worry doesn’t help if things will eventually happen. Whatever happens, we have to either face it or give it up right now.

So just face it. Don’t “inform” your parents that you are already committed. Tell them that you are dating this guy and ask for their advice to make them feel that they are respected and then they shall respect you too. Tell them how good your boyfriend is.

As for the conflict of religions, do you think that it’s critical? If it’s critical, one of you needs to be less religious, I suppose.

Im not gonna talk about religions. Religions are supposed to make life better, but why are they conflicted?

The destiny is in your own hands.

Comment on Boyfriend vs Parents by Bodict Pril

Bodict Pril — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 13:47:37 +0000

Hi! i just wanna share our simple yet very complicated love story of me and my boyfriend..Actually, we’re just new in our relationship..and my main problem is..my parents doesn’t know that I’m already committed to this guy whom I’m always seeing…But I know that they already have an idea..They’re just waiting for me to share and to formally introduce my man..And we have this conflict on our religion..I’m a Christian and he’s a catholic..that’s the another problem here..But i really love him..So, I made up my mind to fight for our LOVE..My parents love me and I love them too..But loving my boyfriend is the another side of it..It’s LOVE and I can’t compare it to anybody else..I’m willing to give my ALL..so my parents will accept us and eventually let us be together FOREVER…I’m really looking forward to be with him FOREVER…To be my husband and the father of my kids..Please Lord help and guide US…=)

Comment on Why do we argue about stupid things by Min Min

Min Min — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 14:36:27 +0000

Because you are in love

Comment on Marriage Counselor by Jhon Smith

Jhon Smith — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 09:04:53 +0000

After marriage everyone face so many problems in their life. Misunderstandings, constant fights on small issues, financial problems, infidelity, etc. these are the things which causes for relationship issue. but following are the solution to solve the problem such as understand each other’s personal values, learn to listen, show kindness, avoid arguments, give and take, share your feelings, and develop trust.