Your marriage seemed to shatter right before your very eyes when you found out about the affair. Your trust is shaken and your self-esteem took a downward leap.
Yes, adultery and affairs do exist but this does not mean you and your spouse have to forget your vows and end your relationship. You find yourself silently shouting, “God, help me save my marriage!”
Rebuilding trust after an affair is possible but only if you are both committed to the process, both believe in your marriage and are both determined to succeed.
Saving your marriage is the ultimate exercise in patience and self-healing. Give yourself time to calm down and process the whole situation. Forcing yourself to stay with your spouse and to restrain your anger is almost impossible when this happens, yet this is what you’ll need to do. You’ll want enough time to compose yourself prior to confronting the whole situation and the people involved in it.