You never expected to hear the devastating words that your spouse had an affair. A numbness takes over, as your mind tries to fathom this unthinkable news. The words leave you shaken, as you grapple with the reality of an affair. With your mind twirling into a captivating state of thoughts, you wonder if this is the end of your marriage.
As you struggle with the hurt and anger inside you, the realization settles over you, that your spouse had an affair. That it can happen to even you. As you begin to understand, that it doesn’t mean you have to end your relationship, silently, you shout, “Please God, help save my marriage!”
After an affair, the first priority for you and your spouse, is to rebuild trust. It is learning to understand the situation that brought you to the affair. Saving your marriage, takes patience and healing. And it is only possible, if you still believe in your marriage. Despite the odds, you must be determined to succeed.
When memories flare up, bringing back, the ultimate betrayal that occurred between the two of you, there has to be a resolve to save your marriage. Remember, you have to give yourself enough time to resolve your anger, and to confront the situation with your spouse.