Posts Tagged ‘Advice’
If someone out there relates don’t hesitate to comment. I have a relationship with someone for 1 year and things have been rocky and good but lately and before we’ve been arguing and I don’t know why its hard for him to accept my apoliges from the begining of the arguing. I do make mistakes but im always willing to say im sorry. How can I fix this “honey”? Is there something else I can do other then say im sorry. Im always willing to go out of my way whether im right or wrong. And it seems he wants to get so mad and go on and on and makes me really frustrated and then I begin to cry because he puts me in an alley with a dead-end sign and I feel emotionally drained and tired by the time we end everything peacefully usually 2 hours when we usually get really into it which happens 3 o 4 times a month and maybe its not so bad for other people but if you felt as sucked died from energy as me it takes at least a couple of days to recover and re-cooperate energy. And for the next few days I feel sad, really sad even if he says things that he doesn’t mean and then says im sorry. I keep playing them in my head over and over. I just don’t understand why he doesn’t want to use his common sense and listen to me and not be so resentful. I need some advice really soon and really bad. I don’t want end the relationship but these thoughts enter my head. Should I stay? He may leave me with no other choice but to end everything. I do love him and that’s why im doing lots of research on what can be done. I feel so alone, helpless, sad, frustrated, down, gloomy and a little depressed you could say. Why?
- Maira
Saturday, March 20th, 2010
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Really need advise. Im 22 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend who iv secretly been with 1 year. we both love each other but my father says he’ll kill himself if i go with this lad. wat to do? plz its cracken me up
- sandra
Saturday, December 26th, 2009
Tags:Advice, Lover vs Parents
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My girlfriend won’t swallow her pride when it comes to situations and we argue over little things all the time. She’s in America at the moment for 3 months which Im finding really hard at the moment to deal with. We’ve been together for a bit over a year but I think she needs to compromise with me sometimes and make sacrifices as I have done.
I’ve also put her threw alot over the last 8 months with me going to jail and now rehab only cause Im young and stupid but she still stuck by me threw it all. I just need some relationship advice about my situation please. Thanks.
- Camo
Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009
Tags:Advice, Arguing with a Narcissist
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Need relationship advice on the best way to discipline a 10 year old boy that is always getting into trouble at school, daycare and home! We have tried, restriction, taking away things that he likes to do, making him clean all kinds of things around the house, writing sentences, doing more homework, I cannot even remember all of the things that we have tried!
- Samantha
Monday, June 29th, 2009
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I need your relationship advice. There this guy in my school and I think he’s really cute. I can’t stop thinking about him. I have a crush on him. A few days ago he stared at me two times and I was so happy. For the first time he noticed me. Does this mean he’s interested in me or what?
Thanks
- Cherrypie
Tuesday, January 20th, 2009
Tags:Advice, First Love, He likes me, Shy Guy
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Hi all, Im a 16 year old girl and have been with my boyfriend 4years! yeah along time i know but we love the hell outta each other, we have our ups and downs but who doesn’t? lol. the situation is my mum and daddy really dislike him because of what he has done to me in the past but i have forgiven him for that and we have both moved on. My choices are to move out and have nothing to do with my parents or forget my boyfriend and the four years and do what my mum and dad want me to do…finish with my boyfriend and stay with them. Im in such a dilemma coz its so hard to choose coz its my family and boyfriend…? anyone any relationship advice …please !!! xox
- Liv X
Tuesday, September 16th, 2008
Tags:Advice, Lover vs Parents
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Hi, I need TRUTHFUL relationship advice.
My girlfriend and I met 18 months ago and since then we have been living together for about a year. She has been married six times and has gotten a divorce every time. I have never been married or been in a truly serious relationship until now. We told each other all the things that two people say when they are passionately being in love. We discussed everything in our lives with each other and made plans and decisions for a permanent relationship. I even gave up my job so we could work around hers, since her job was more established and secure. There are many other things that were discussed that I could include in this message but it would be too long.
Now, she wants to give up on this relationship without telling me all the TRUTHFUL reasons why. I expressed to her from the very beginning that her relationship track record was bad and that I was not looking for a serious relationship at the time that I met her, but the fact that we both agreed this relationship was for real and we could make commitment to it, we decided to RISK it.
My values are the most important thing to me and TRUST is at the very top of the list, which I expressed to her. How can someone be so cruel to fake a relationship, commitment, and LOVE? She tells me that she will LOVE me forever, no matter what happens, but why should I believe her. She has already broken my TRUST. It’s not the fact she has broken this trust that frustrates, it’s the fact that I don’t TRUST what she tells me anymore. Am I fighting a loosing battle? I hate to walk away from something that I put so much effort and sacrifice into. She has some serious issues that she needs to work on, and we have discussed them, but for whatever reason, she wants to end the relationship.
By the way, she has wanted to end the relationship many times before only to change her mind. Not because she wanted to work on herself or the relationship, but because of the reasons that I still don’t know. She has also left once only to call me and wanted to get back together. All of these actions are things that I’m analyzing and trying to come to a decision. There is much more that I could include but I’m hoping someone can give me some relationship advice on what I’ve written. Thanks for all of your help.
- Mike
Thursday, March 27th, 2008
Tags:Advice, Commitment, Personality, Trust
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Well first I’d have to say that Im confused whether I still love mah bf or not…..I really don’t understand mah feeling for him ne more…I get pissed of at him most of the time; we fight a lot; we call each other names; I tell him that I hate him all the time; I try and kick him out but he never leaves when I try to….and the worse thing is that when I talk to other guys and start for a while after I start to like them..even tho I have a bf I feel like I want to be with someone that will treat me better and understand me better…but then again I don’t want to do that because I don’t wanna cheat and lower myself to the same thing that he did for me…what I mean by that is that he cheated on me once and I haven’t gotten over that….so I guess I want relationship advice or whatever…or to see if there are ne ppl out there that feel the same or something well if I didn’t make ne sense or u dont get it just write back or e-mail me…thanks for those who have read and took the time to read what I had to say thanks
- Shawty
Thursday, June 21st, 2007
Tags:Advice, Confused Relationship, Love or Not
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Hi, My name is Adam. I need relationship advice. Recently my girlfriend broke up with me after 4.5 Years of seeing each other. She broke up with me because she held all her emotions in to herself and didn’t say a word to me about what was wrong, until breaking point. When she did finally come to me it was too late she wanted to break up and did not even give me a chance to help solve the issues we were having and to try to fix our love relationship. Tell me this how do I know when there’s something wrong, when every thing seems o.k? Do you guys believe I deserve a second chance?
- Adam
Tuesday, March 20th, 2007
Tags:Advice, Break up, Personality, Relationship
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Hi, my name is Marlyn. I need serious relationship advice. My boyfriend and I broke up last Thursday. I always thought that he liked 1 of my best friends. When I asked him he would always say that it wasn’t true. That I was the only person he loved and no one else. Some time later, things started changing. He didn’t called me like he did in the beginning and he would act all weird with me all the time. Like if he didn’t care about me anymore. One day I asked my friend to call him and start flirting with him. She said ok and she started talking to him. She asked him if he liked her and he said that he had liked her since first they met. Some days later he asked her out. She said no because he was my boyfriend and I was her friend. He told her that that didn’t matter. That I wasn’t going to know. At the moment I was really sad. I knew that I had to break up with him. One day, my friend called him. I was listening to everything they were saying. Right in that moment I just got in the conversation. I told him everything. HE didn’t say anything. He jus got quiet the whole time, and then he hung up. I miss him soo much. I can’t forget about him. I would like to know what to do because I know that he doesn’t deserve me but that doesn’t change my love for him. Please help me. How can I forget about him?
Wednesday, February 14th, 2007
Tags:Advice, Bestfriend vs Lover, Break up, Forget Love
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