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Feb. 27.

People Change


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I’ve been with this boy for almost 5 years now and I honestly don’t know what his problem is. I tried my best to make him happy; at times he is and at times he really hurts my feelings as if he calls me goofy b* the lazy ass etc…. But back then he was a complete sweetheart and we’re known as high school sweethearts.

He was there for me through it all back then. He started to have an attitude change. I tend to talk to him and ask questions on how he treats me but he blames it all on me and I have to ask him now to buy me things and he hardly ever kisses me. He complains that I kiss him too much. What do u expect? I love you.

When I worry about him he brushes me off. When I want to talk he goes in the room with my parents. He will barely hold me and it hurts. Lately at night I dream of my past how he used to be. When I tell him about it he says uh huh ok people change. I ask him why he says they just do.

Is it that he lost his love for me? Can I bare the penalty on how much I tend to cry at night just for him to see how much I love him. Please help thanks.

- lynda

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Jun. 08.

Is he still interested


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For a year I was dying to met a guy that attended the same church as me. Everyday time I see him I would feel that he was the right one for me and I knew I really wanted to meet him. My sister decided to go and ask for his number with out my permission and I was surprised to find out that he was interested in meeting me.

He txt me that day and it was like a dream come true. We txt hours and he asked me out on a date. I thought he was going too fast. He explained that he would be leaving to Paris for 2 months and he wanted to get to know me more and spend time with me before he left.

We went on a date and he was so sweet and nice. By the end of the date we went to a lake and not planned we were hugging and then we kissed. I feel good about it and idk he did.

After the date he would txt me and he said we were gonna keep in touch when he was gone. I gave him my email and a week later after he left he emailed me. I replied and he did answer the second time but after the third time I emailed him he didn’t reply back.

I emailed him for his birthday and he did answer to that email. He asked me how I was doing and that he was really glad to hear from me but it was short and simple not like the other emails he had sent me long and flirty. I replied back and he has not answered me.

I’m a person who worries too much and I can’t stop thinking about him and our date. But the thing is that, do you think he has lost interest in me? Or he met someone else in his trip? Maybe I’m over exaggerating. I’m afraid that when he comes back he would not talk to me no more or he would tell me that he meet someone else in Paris. Should I just wait and take things slow?

- Maria

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Mar. 05.

He Changed


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Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now. He used to tell me everything and would basically do anything to help me. This past weekend me and him had gotten into a fight that caused us to break up for the moment. The next couple of hours we are right back together. But then the next night he went out with my cousin and his cousin almost all night. He likes to talk to them & his step mom (fyi Which is my brothers ex wife) and they tell him what to do and give him relationship advice.

Well someone told him something and now he’s being completely rude and not telling me anything anymore. He is extremely rude at times. There is NO talking to him about anything. When me and him are around his friends I don’t exist. He doesn’t inform me about anything that goes on in his life anymore. He’s becoming more dependent on his step mom for everything than anyone else in this world. He talks to my cousin and his cousin about things that he tells me last. Its like he does not trust me anymore.

What is going on? Why is he doing this? Is there a solution to all of this drama?

- Bonnie

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