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Is he still interested

For a year I was dying to met a guy that attended the same church as me. Everyday time I see him I would feel that he was the right one for me and I knew I really wanted to meet him. My sister decided to go and ask for his number with out my permission and I was surprised to find out that he was interested in meeting me.

He txt me that day and it was like a dream come true. We txt hours and he asked me out on a date. I thought he was going too fast. He explained that he would be leaving to Paris for 2 months and he wanted to get to know me more and spend time with me before he left.

We went on a date and he was so sweet and nice. By the end of the date we went to a lake and not planned we were hugging and then we kissed. I feel good about it and idk he did.

After the date he would txt me and he said we were gonna keep in touch when he was gone. I gave him my email and a week later after he left he emailed me. I replied and he did answer the second time but after the third time I emailed him he didn’t reply back.

I emailed him for his birthday and he did answer to that email. He asked me how I was doing and that he was really glad to hear from me but it was short and simple not like the other emails he had sent me long and flirty. I replied back and he has not answered me.

I’m a person who worries too much and I can’t stop thinking about him and our date. But the thing is that, do you think he has lost interest in me? Or he met someone else in his trip? Maybe I’m over exaggerating. I’m afraid that when he comes back he would not talk to me no more or he would tell me that he meet someone else in Paris. Should I just wait and take things slow?

- Maria

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He Changed

Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now. He used to tell me everything and would basically do anything to help me. This past weekend me and him had gotten into a fight that caused us to break up for the moment. The next couple of hours we are right back together. But then the next night he went out with my cousin and his cousin almost all night. He likes to talk to them & his step mom (fyi Which is my brothers ex wife) and they tell him what to do and give him advice. Well someone told him something and now hes being completely rude and not telling me anything anymore. He is extremely rude at times. There is NO talking to him about anything. When me and him are around his friends I don’t exist. He doesn’t inform me about anything that goes on in his life anymore. Hes becoming more dependent on his step mom for everything than anyone else in this world. He talks to my cousin and his cousin about things that he tells me last. Its like he does not trust me anymore.
What is going on? Why is he doing this? Is there a solution to all of this drama?

- Bonnie

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Love Changed

We’ve been on and off for our last 6 months (1 1/2 years together). He doesn’t come around no matter what I do. And it’s always my fault. If I speak up about his ignoring and even insulting me (in front of friends and family sometimes) he says I’m a baby and can’t take a joke and “doesn’t know if he wants to be someone who’s always nit-picking” He’s a senior in college, I’m a junior, separate schools though near. He never visits. I am in agony.

I want to be in a loving relationship like we used to be. I could look for someone else but I really want it to be HIM.

- Jeanie

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Boyfriend Changed

I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things were great when we started going out for the first 3 months at least. We broke up for about 1 month but we were always together during it. When we started going back out things were great he treated me better than ever, but then things started to change. He never wants to be around me and we always fight. when he started to live with me, things just got worse. He threatens to break up with me all the time, or leave me. He calls me names and says Im a crazy bitch because I wanna talk to him instead of fighting. He never keeps his promises. Im starting to become really depressed. I dont know what to do.

- gina

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Get back with ex

Alright tricky situation here. I found out that my boyfriend of a year cheated on me a while ago, so I broke up with him even thought I was crazily being in love with him. I thought it was for the best and that I wouldn’t feel the same anyways. Well, it has been a couple of months, and I went to homecoming with a guy I’m not too crazy about but who is really sweet to me. But I cannot stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend and I still love him so much and miss him more than life. I feel like Im not being fair to the new guy and I really want to get back to my ex. Im not gonna go into detail but he has definitely showed me that he has changed. Relationship advice?

- Unknown

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