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Oct. 15.

Move on or not

So my ex’s dad died before our two year anniversary and we soon broke up after his death. We acted like we were going out but really weren’t for a year and about three months and it didn’t exactly work out. He has not moved on yet completely from his dad’s death (they were best friends) and right now he wants to live a life with no responsibilities (like a committed relationship aka me) and pressure.

We both care about each other more than anyone in the world and are still in love. We have been doing texting and stuff almost everyday but we don’t act like we’re boyfriend and girlfriend anymore…I have known for a very long time that he is the one (when we were best friends) and I am wondering if I should move on or not or talk to him and see if we’re still on the same page towards being in love with each other. Thanks.

- Bree

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Feb. 19.

Three and Out

My boyfriend and I were together for 4 and a half years. We have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years and have been able to make it work thus far. We broke up for 4 months and he came crawling back saying he made a mistake and will do anything to be with me. He was amazing. Two weeks ago he broke up with me saying he couldn’t give me what I needed and that he just wanted space to be able to do his own thing. I found out last week that he told his old roommate that he wants to marry me, but being together is bad timing. I wrote him a letter telling him how I feel and that I understand we shouldn’t be together anymore because I am so hurt he would leave again. We don’t talk, although he called me last weekend and asked me to come see him and I did. Everything seemed fine, but then he said it was a mistake and haven’t heard from him since. What should I do?

- Brittany

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Dec. 28.

Marry Me

I am 40 years old single never married woman strictly spiritual, presently in relationship with a 38 years old never married guy who is atheist. This is my first relationship. We met one year back. Everything is pleasant, we love each other but I am not sure whether he wants to marry me. He calls me regularly, gifts me, cares for me, takes me home, introduces to his family so on so. He shares all his fears, thoughts, dreams n plans with me. Earlier in the begininng he told me that he never wished to marry ever, n that he had lot of relationships which r broken. I need to find out how serious is he n does he think me of marriage material. Does he love me? We r yet to have physical relationship fully. He does expresses at times of going out n spending few days together. I desire to marry him before I get really serious.

- A.B.

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