Tag Archives: Confused Relationship

Jul. 24.

Still Care

Well me and my boyfriend broke up b-4 valentines day and b-4 I gave him my bff home number and he called her and talked and all out of no where he broke up with me b-cuz he was afraid to fall in love with me. He stopped calling or talking to me when I went to my other bff’s house on Wed. night for church. So I started writing poems and crap. They kept talking to each other. And then today they go out and every-1 at skool asks if it bothers me and I tell them no. My mind says let him go but my heart says hold on. Ya..but see I like his “ex” best friend..and he likes me..so we go sk8ing and I turn emo again…we go outside and flirt. I felt bad but happy. However, I just really want my ex-boyfriend to at lease talk or call…even walk up and tell me he still cares bout me. I mean..Im so confused…and this has been happening since 1month and 2weeks ago..just plz help

- Confused Emo

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Mar. 24.

Married but

Dear friends,

I am married for last 11 yrs, it was a love marriage, but now we don’t have any love in between us. In starting he used to love me a lot, but now he keeps up complaining for one or the other thing. I have a baby girl of 7 yrs, but now I am not able to coup up with him.

After marriage we have started a business, day by day he started behaving like a boss. After completing 10 yrs to our business, I fed up with his behaviour. He used to insult every time. So I left office and started doing job. I got a good job.

Now he left house, saying he doesn’t want to stay with me. He keeps up doubting on me. Now we are staying separate. Mean while I get engaged with one of my best friend. He was really very supporting to me always. But he is married too. We really care and concern about each other. He is also not having good married life. He is ready to give divorce to his wife.

What should I do? Should I give divorce to my husband? Or should I go to him again in my old role. He just wants me to play on his fingers. I am really very confused and not getting any way out of this. Pls help me to get out of this confusion.

- Deepu

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Dec. 18.

Fight every day

We’ve been dating for almost 6 months but friends for about a year and a half. We fought maybe about every 2 weeks when we were friends but it seems like things have escalated and now we fight almost every day.

I’m not talking about simple disagreements with my boyfriend, rather, I always seem to do something wrong and he gets angry over them. I say sorry multiple times, tell him I understand why he would get upset, and whatnot but it’s never enough.

A regular couple might fight until someone says sorry, however, I always say sorry as soon as I feel him getting upset but the fights drag out about day – usually about small things- until he starts to feel better.

I’m always feeling like I walk on eggshells around him because I don’t want to start another argument. I just don’t feel like myself anymore because I’ve sacrificed so much of my social life and parts of how I am to avoid arguments but somehow we still fight everyday.  

I love him very much, but I feel like the bad is starting to outweigh the good in our relationship. Fighting, crying, and yelling everyday is starting to take over the kisses and hugs. I feel like there is no hope in our relationship because this has been going on for about 6 months with no change and I’m confused on what to do.

But I guess my question is, should I let this relationship go or keep trying? Any extra relationship advice would be great also… thank you.

- Kiara Jo

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