Say “Yes” More Often For the Perfect Match

This process is not about compromising your morals or setting aside important criteria for a potential partner. For example, it gives you the ability to reject someone who does not share the same religion or who does not have children and never wants them. You don’t have to waste your time going out with someone who does not meet what’s most important to you. These are serious issues you can exclude someone, as not being suitable for you.

But, there are less important characteristics that you could consider. Is it really important if the person you date has a cat instead of a dog, rents a nice apartment instead of owning a house, or is 5′ 11″, instead of six feet tall? If you found a terrific person, in spite of these minor differences, it really shouldn’t matter.

Say “Yes” to More Dates

It is 100% acceptable to go out on a date or a simple meet-and-greet with more than one person in a week or month, when exploring online dating. You never know, you may find a true connection. Besides saying yes to more first dates, consider agreeing to second dates with people who may not met all of your criteria, but you were attractive to. Show some empathy. Sometimes people are nervous on first dates, which may cause them act awkward with you. Under different circumstances, they would be relaxed in your company.

It’s understandable that you should never go on a date if you don’t feel comfortable.
Your safety is the most important thing to protect you, when you are dating a stranger, from an online contact. You have the right to say no to anyone for any reason, if you feel uneasy. But, the more people you agree to go out with, the greater your chances are of finding the right one.

Say “Yes” to More New Experiences

In the quest for someone fun to hang out with or a truly serious relationship, it is a good idea to say yes to new experiences. People tend to be drawn to those who share their interests. They think finding someone who they have a lot in common with, is the best way to connect. Sometimes having a willingness to experience something new can lead to you discovering things you never knew about, that enhances your life in a meaningful way together. In the future, you will have these experiences as lasting memories.

Learning about the other person, the things he or she likes, provides you with quality time together. It shows your partner that you care about what’s important to him or her. If you begin dating someone who really loves attending sport games, it makes sense to go to a few games, as a way to connect.

Finding love through an online dating service, means being open to experiences with people and discovering a world through someone else. The more people you say yes to, the greater the opportunity to meet someone who gives you something you didn’t have in your life. Even if you don’t find what you want, it gave experiences that you wouldn’t have, if you hasn’t let yourself explore a new approach to dating.

4 Unique Ideas for Your First Date

A first date is not an easy business. This is the one chance you have to show your date who you are and develop the kind of chemistry that leads to a longer relationship. While the cliché “dinner and a movie” option rarely fails, it also fails to impress. Setting yourself apart from the crowd takes originality and an active spirit. Try some of these date ideas for unique, active first date experiences that will have them coming back for more.

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Get Out In The Fresh Air

While the latest Hollywood feature may be just fine to waste a few hours, it is not a suitable place to explore and build a budding relationship. Instead of staring at a screen for hours, try staring at the sunset together. Go out into the country for a hike, enjoy an evening bonfire, or some stargazing. Be sure to create a backup plan in case of inclement weather. But, make sure the contingency is just as much fun as the original plan. Being alone together with nature will not only create a romantic mood, it will give the two of you time to get to know each other. Besides, who doesn’t fancy a meal under the open sky?

 

Ride

Go Riding Together

There are loads of options for the budding daredevil. Try a driving adventure and slip into a new ride. Channel your inner James Bond by taking your date for a spin in an Aston Martin, or pay homage to Monty with a romp through the country in a tank. For those on a stricter budget, have a go on a Quad Bike for a mud bath or stroll through the hills on a Segway. Look around, you should find a suitable provider in your area. Having an adventure together will give you a spectacular foundation for your relationship. The adrenaline rush takes the pressure off you and makes sure your date won’t forget the time you spent together.

 Create A Musical Masterpiece

 

Couple Play GuitarFor the artistically inclined, making something together is a sure way to create a unique impression. While that could mean buying a canvas and paint for an evening splashing color on the wall (and each other), plenty of other creative endeavor would be just as special. A bit of shared cookery or a few hours of musical collaboration are just as memorable as a couple’s painting session. Making something creative shows your date a lot about who you are. Art is an expression of the artist. That makes it a perfect way to show them who you really are and get a glimpse inside your date’s soul.

Be Active

The key to all these ideas is action. Too many dates are passive experiences in a restaurant or a cinema. These dates don’t give couples the option of really sharing who they are, and are easily forgotten as “just another first date.” Action creates memories and opportunities for more dates in case you hit it off. Even if things don’t work out, you will have had a load of fun doing something unique and exciting.

One of the best ways to make an impression on the first date is to take your partner to the race track. You both get the opportunity of driving super cars on a professional motor racing circuit.  If you are a good driver you can show off your talent in front of your date.

Impress Your Lady Without The Embarrassment Of Low Cash

Want ideas on how to impress your new lady without the embarrassment of low cash? Do you think a first date shouldn’t cost the earth? But, you still want to make an impression?  Don’t worry guys, I have the answer…

Cinema

Taking your girl to the cinema is a classic first date! You can share an extra large  box of popcorn and a drink. Feel that electric jolt when your hands touch as you both reach into the popcorn box at the same time!

Just pick your movie wisely – taking a girly girl to see Star Wars on a first date might not go down so well. Ask her beforehand if there are any new movies out she wants to see, and if not, a comedy is always a winner.

Bowling

Bowling will give you the chance to have a great laugh together on your first date, and is super cheap too. You’ll have time to chat and get to know each other, whilst a bit of friendly competition might see sparks flying!

Tell your date to dress comfortably, order some chips to share, and enjoy the evening ahead.

Eat Out

 

Eating out doesn’t have to empty your wallet, and as long as it isn’t at the local McDonald, she’s sure to love it! A meal out is a great chance to talk. If you want to come off as suave, avoid anything that makes a slurping sound as you eat it – you may want to skip the soup of the day, that’s on the menu.

Here’s another great idea! Pick her up from her house, this will give you the chance to spend some time alone together in the car.  Order a platter to share with her. This will keep it super romantic.

Eat In

 

An alternative to eating out, is eating in with that special someone. It is just as romantic and gives you a great chance to show off your culinary skills to impress her.  But, if you are not really a budding chef?  Ordering take-away to eat while cuddling together on the comfort of your own sofa is a cheaper version of cinema and a meal out. It gives you the chance to warmly embrace each in the privacy of your home.

 

Picnic

There are few things more romantic than a picnic in a secluded quiet area on a warm summer’s day, surrounded by nature, with the fragrance of the grass beneath you. This is an inexpensive option for a first date.

A picnic saves you from the noisy atmosphere of a restaurant. And you don’t have to clean and tidy up to perfection, as you do when eating at home. Buy a big blanket to sit on, bring a large basket chugged with some finger food, cold drinks, and other refreshing cool treats.  This will   guarantee the two of you a wonderful time, which may lead to a second date.  And, if many more times together are fun-filled, it could result in a lifetime  of memories for you.