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Religion Conflict

Hi! i just wanna share our simple yet very complicated love story of me and my boyfriend..Actually, we’re just new in our relationship..and my main problem is..my parents doesn’t know that I’m already committed to this guy whom I’m always seeing…But I know that they already have an idea..They’re just waiting for me to share and to formally introduce my man..And we have this conflict on our religion..I’m a Christian and he’s a catholic..that’s the another problem here..But i really love him..So, I made up my mind to fight for our LOVE..My parents love me and I love them too..But loving my boyfriend is the another side of it..It’s LOVE and I can’t compare it to anybody else..I’m willing to give my ALL..so my parents will accept us and eventually let us be together FOREVER…I’m really looking forward to be with him FOREVER…To be my husband and the father of my kids..Please Lord help and guide US…=)

- Bodict Pril

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Boyfriend or Father

Really need advise. Im 22 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend who iv secretly been with 1 year. we both love each other but my father says he’ll kill himself if i go with this lad. wat to do? plz its cracken me up

- sandra

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Boyfriend Parents

I’m 20 n my boyfriend is 29. He has made a lot of effort to get my parents’ approval regarding our relationship. Our relationship is a bliss. We have no problems except my parents. For some reasons they disapprove.

I think it’s partly because he’s not highly educated, therefore it’s hard for him to be on the same page with them, i.e during conversations. But mostly because of me (I think) because of my past relationships.

I used to date those ‘bad boy’ kind of guys. They brought alot of problems. But this time is different. My boyfriend is the best man I’ve ever met. Unfortunately I think my parents no longer think that I’m capable of making the right choice for my self.

My boyfriend n I have been together for more than a year now. And we’re planning to get married next year. I just don’t know how to get my parents to approve.

Fortunately, his family supports us. So I guess I will have to find a way. I know I can never let him go. I love my parents, I really do. But I have to make them realize that this is my life. And I am aware of the consequences of my decisions. They just have to trust me for myself…

- Unknown

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Boyfriend Parents

Long distance relationship

I’m an 18 year old straight female and lately I’ve been having issues with a long distance relationship.

To make a long story short previously I had a long distance relationship with a guy (I was 17 he was 21 at the time) without telling my parents. It was about 3 days before my parents discovered that I had been with him(in person). My father almost killed him, called the police, and started threatening that he’d kill himself.

Now I’m in another relationship with a 23 year old who lives in Pennsylvania. The only issue is I told my parents and they have taken away my phone, car, and all other forms of communication.

I’ve known this guy for a year and I’d really like to give him a chance. How can I explain that to my parents in a way that won’t freak them out or have them look at me like I’m some weirdo? Should I drop this relationship and conform to what my parents think is normal?

- Felicia

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Boyfriend with a past

My boyfriend has had a very bad past,..he has been intimate with his 3 exs before and a girl whom he didn’t know nearly slept with him..honestly, i never wanted to meet someone like him..but then we just coincidentally were asked to perform together and fell in love,..my parents later knew and since my sis knew his past as well..i was really forbidden to meet him..i was helpless and many times felt like committing suicide cause i didn’t know what i really wanted..after a while..he spoke to me saying that he wants to live with me forever and would do whatever it takes…he is my first boyfriend..everyone warned me against him..and mind u i made him run behind me just to prove his love…i didn’t have much of a choice but to test his sincerity….now they found out again..my bf left his home n is living with his relative who supports our relationship..he has completed his education and really wants to make his mark in the army to prove everyone wrong and to provide for me..right now..there is no one else left for him except me..but everyone else in my family dun want him and i dun want to be ungrateful to my parents..now again for the third time we are still together but everyone thinks we broke up..i hate to lie and i really hate to live at this moment cause i dun know wat decisions to make in life…he has promised to keep me happy..

- Unknown

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Boyfriend with a past

Parents Dislike Boyfriend

Choice

Lover vs Parents

The related cases we will refer to when we address this topic are under “Lover vs Parents” menu.

“No one can live your life but you”; this is true, however, when your parents dislike your boyfriend, the situation is not so simple but getting tough.

The first question you should ask yourself is: why do my parents dislike my boyfriend, and what’s more, why do they want me to leave my boyfriend? The answer makes things clear: your parents love you and want you to live a happy life in the future, while based on their own experiences and knowledge, they are afraid that you will not be happy living with your boyfriend in the future, especially when your boyfriend had a bad past. In this case, your parents are reasonable. If they don’t care about you, they won’t even be concerned about whom you are with and will hope you get married and leave them soon.

If you are seriously being in love with this boy and you want it to last but you don’t want your parents to be mad, then do something to show them how much you love him, tell them why you love him so much and ask them how they would feel if their parents said they couldn’t have each other.

If you have reasons, your parents will listen and understand you, since they love you. If your parents are not convinced, then it means there’s something wrong and you will probably be aware of what’s wrong. Grecia leos told you, “If I would have listened to them (her parents) at the beginning I wouldnt be here crying.”

On the other hand, I hope that your parents will take time communicating with you instead of simply forbidding you to meet him.

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Boyfriend vs Dad n Mum

Hi all, Im a 16 year old girl and have been with my boyfriend 4years! yeah along time i know but we love the hell outta each other, we have our ups and downs but who doesn’t? lol. the situation is my mum and daddy really dislike him because of what he has done to me in the past but i have forgiven him for that and we have both moved on. My choices are to move out and have nothing to do with my parents or forget my boyfriend and the four years and do what my mum and dad want me to do…finish with my boyfriend and stay with them. Im in such a dilemma coz its so hard to choose coz its my family and boyfriend…? anyone any relationship advice …please !!! xox

- Liv X

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Boyfriend vs Dad n Mum

Boyfriend vs Parents

I love my boyfriend to death we’ve been together almost 2 yrs. We were hiding it from our parents cause I know they wouldn’t like him. I know they know and want me to stop talking to him but I can’t. I love him and don’t want to lose him. Then I don’t want my parents to be mad please help me

- Quit girl

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Boyfriend vs Parents