My boyfriend graduated last year and I’m still a sophomore. We both want him to be able to come to homecoming. But my parents don’t approve of us dating. How do I ask them if he can just come as a friend? Because they don’t know that we’re still dating….
- Andi
My sister is dating someone my family doesn’t like. I admit I do not like him as well. My sister knows we don’t like him. So she separated herself from us. And that hurts my mother more than anything. Not only is she separated, she doesn’t respect us anymore.
I got in to a fight with her boyfriend. He even put his hands around my neck. She didn’t do anything. And that’s what hurt the most. She stood there staring.
He is a mean person, if only she knew. His last girlfriend tried to tell her. He uses her for money. All she does is work. And all he does is sit at home. Even when she comes home she cooks.
All she ever says to me is I don’t understand because I have never been in love. I may not have been in love. But I think I know a bad guy when I see them.
The only thing I can say to you guys is, your family loves you. And they know you. They only have your best interests at heart. So have faith in them…
- Diana
Hi, I’ve been with my boyfriend (we are both the same age) for just 2 months and everything was going fine till very recently. He had been twisting certain things that had been said and told me all about it in one go. Of Course my reaction was immediate of which I confided in my parents. I have a very close bond with my mum and my dad is the well typical “I’ll smash his face in” type. I’ve managed to get over this incident as I understand his reasons even though they are strange. But my parents have not.
My dad’s still threatening to punch his lights out and my mum refuses to talk about it as it gets her gander up. I really want to talk to them about it but they refuse too. They’re making it difficult for me to see him and aren’t allowing him round here now. It’s tearing me in two. I know it’s only been 2 months but I’ve known him so much longer that it feels more than that. It’s like Romeo and Juliet.
Their family has no problem with me as it seems. I know my parents love me and want what’s best but I can’t help but think they are being very single minded about the whole palaver. I mean if I can put it behind me then why can’t they? Any Relationship Advice?? It’s pushing me to the stage where I’m tempted to move out for a week or two to clear the air. I don’t want to have to do that.
Is there any other way?? Please help, Thankyou xx
- Lozz
