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Sep. 17.

Trouble trusting boyfriend


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My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months now. I’m still having trouble trusting him. He’s gave me a million reasons for me to trust him. Even his friends told me he is the most faithful person they know. In my past relationships I’ve been cheated on many of times. When he goes out, I always ask him questions like “were there girls there? did they touch you? did u flirt with them?” It’s tearing us apart. We both want to be together for the rest of our lives. We recently had a conversation about this whole trust issue and we almost broke up over it. He told me that if we have to have this conversation again its over. Please help, our relationship is a stake because of me. I want to be able to trust him, I just have a mental block in my head. I suppose I’m doing this to protect myself from getting hurt again. That’s probably why I ask all those questions.

Thank you,
Kalena Lawson

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Jan. 23.

Distrust


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Here’s a my situation. My girlfriend of 8 months constantly asks and questions every move I make. She even checks my cell phone when Im out of the room. This has gone on 46 out of the 8 months we have been together. I take her on trips. I moved her in with me and pay all the bills. It’s who I am to be the provider. On top of all that I’m not a cheater! We stay @ home the majority of the time and really never go out with friends although I would like to more. Recently I went out with sum friends and begged her to come. She just didn’t want to go. I finally said I gotta get out and see some friends. 20 minutes later I’m getting phone calls from my girlfriend threatening our relationship and out looking 4 me. She shows up in the parking lot and is checking up on me. What do I do? Here I could write a book with other episodes. I think I am a little mad that I am in this situation but I really do care 4 this woman. I want to fix it but is it a lost cause 4 me to play doc?

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