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Mar. 08.

Mood swings

I am 25 just got out of a very dragged out and hurtful relationship. Of 2 1/2 years. We always did the whole break up to make thing. But after hurting each other so many times, it had to be accepted maybe now is not our time or ever for that matter.

Letting go of him was the scariest thing. I lost who I was and became a complete stranger to my self.
Not even 2 months go by and my friend introduced me to this guy, I took my time before I Met him in person because I knew once I did there was no turning back to my ex.

But after several attempts from the (new guy) I said to hell with it, let’s meet up. I’m not a make up high heels girl so I didn’t take the time to get all dolled up for (new guy). The moment I saw him I just wanted to kiss him (I’m not big on kissing, especially 1st dates) I just wanted to love him.

Wer’e hanging out, I’m making him laugh u know just being who I remember I can be. I started seeing him often, too often my sis told me. And after the first 2 weeks I’ve noticed a lil bit of jealousy or attitude if I couldn’t see him one night or a few nights in a row.. but I just brushed it off.. then after it happened again I asked him what’s up with the weirdness, he says (new guy) because I just want to see and hold you.. ,…??? ( I’m not big on that either) after 1 1/2 months we both feel like we’re each other’s best friends/lovers… I could tell him anything like I’ve known him forever.. he told me he loves me then that’s when things got weird.

I started pushing him away, but after I moved into my new place I kind of fell into him. We already argue but as soon as I am mean to him he wants to be nice, when I’m nice to him he wants to be a creep.. why? What does he want from me? He can dish out comments about other girls and I just laugh ’cause I know he is playing. And when I do it about other guys he gets all butt hurt… I’m a joker, I like to talk ish.

- funnybear00

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Dec. 18.

Fight every day

We’ve been dating for almost 6 months but friends for about a year and a half. We fought maybe about every 2 weeks when we were friends but it seems like things have escalated and now we fight almost every day.

I’m not talking about simple disagreements with my boyfriend, rather, I always seem to do something wrong and he gets angry over them. I say sorry multiple times, tell him I understand why he would get upset, and whatnot but it’s never enough.

A regular couple might fight until someone says sorry, however, I always say sorry as soon as I feel him getting upset but the fights drag out about day – usually about small things- until he starts to feel better.

I’m always feeling like I walk on eggshells around him because I don’t want to start another argument. I just don’t feel like myself anymore because I’ve sacrificed so much of my social life and parts of how I am to avoid arguments but somehow we still fight everyday.  

I love him very much, but I feel like the bad is starting to outweigh the good in our relationship. Fighting, crying, and yelling everyday is starting to take over the kisses and hugs. I feel like there is no hope in our relationship because this has been going on for about 6 months with no change and I’m confused on what to do.

But I guess my question is, should I let this relationship go or keep trying? Any extra relationship advice would be great also… thank you.

- Kiara Jo

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Aug. 21.

He drinks

I am in love with a 36yr old man. He says he loves me and wants me to quit my gov job, move in with him, but I have a 13year old daughter, and he likes to go out and get drunk. He says he will never drink and drive but I am still uncomfortable with this should we break up??

- Dina

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